what would you say is the best way to get over some one?
what stages are there?
2007-03-26 01:37:38 · 16 answers · asked by Carrie ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to keep yourself busy. Go out with some single mates and see what life can be single and the fun you can have. You can meet someone else on the way aswell. It may be hard but eventually you will find someone you love more than them and forget all about them.
2007-03-26 01:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Juliet Mandy. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A sickly feeling in your tum! Get the crying out of the way..Dont be ashamed..it goes to men too..Whilst doing some boo hoo, pack away photo etc...Some spilts are amicable and this will happen possilbily later...Girls, talk to Mum or Best friends, Boys, go out with mates...Keep busy!!, Hobbies etc..The ' Not Eating Well ' stage....Not 'Sleeping Well stage'...Who ever has been hurt after split , us human do some strange things..like drive past their house..or...return their stuff a month later!!..This doesn't help you getting over a split.. dont spend to much time on your own..sure, tell people whats happened..but you want to spend some time on your own..( 2 days max )..Then keep busy..start a new hobby...meet friends..go shopping with mum/friends..1 month after split with no contact..I would say you are on route to recovery....But remember..no one can ever take your memories away...you loved them perhaps...always rember the good times, in context that made you smile and laugh...but hey I am a guy,,what the hell should i know!! Jamie x
2007-03-26 11:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you will probably go through the im better then them stage making you life look to be better then it ever was with the other person in it. (Mostly acting)
The get depressed for a good while wondering what there doing and what you did wrong.
Then trying to get your life back so you've got stuff filling the time you would usually spend with them (Good nights out).
Then you will realise you've got on with you life and with out noticing the change.
You will probably never forget and will always have thoughts about that person. But mostly i will say when going through this try not to pretend everythings ok im not saying be crying all the time have people to talk to friends.
2007-03-26 08:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by dora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey it depends, on how much you loved that person, and how long you were together. For me it was a long hard road to get over mine. I almost went crazy. But now I'm over him. Try to take it one day at a time, also try to stay away from places you went together. Don't go anywhere you think you might see him. That only makes you hurt that much more. Get out and meet other people, if someone asks you out go, just to have fun. Don't set around and think about him. Work helped me alot. Just remember time heals all wounds, and it really does. I wish you luck, and happiness!
2007-03-26 08:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time is a great healer....but unfortunately you can't speed that process up...
Remember all their bad points...the things that irritated you, the times you were let down, the frustrations....
Also think about the numbers of other people you know who have broken up with someone in their lives and are now in a subsequent happy relationship......most people have been through it at some point in time and they all have coped.....and so shall you...
And finally remember that the break up is their loss!
2007-03-26 08:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Robbo31 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
getting over someone is a hell of a difficult thing to do.
first u have to allow yourself to feel bad for sometime, because if u dont u will not be able to get over the person. next u have think of how to move on in life.
u have to know that life goes on and despite the fact that u have to live someone, u have to continue living life.
u have to talk to someone that is a friend of yours. get involved in something meaningful but dont be too busy.
interact with people freely and u will get over the person.
2007-03-26 10:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by lilies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have your tearful stage your anger stage
everyone is different, you just need to give yourself time, make sure you have friends around you to comfort you when you need it, try and steer clear of drink, you will only depress yourself more.
dont drag on and on about it to your mates all the time, as this will only keep the wounds open. you can have your own time to think about it.
just remind yourself all the time you are a lovely person and any man would be lucky to be with you
2007-03-26 08:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The final stage of the grief stages is acceptance. Once you accept it you are no longer grieving and you are free to move on !
2007-03-26 08:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's Not easy Im stil in the process my ex broke up with me like three weeks ago and Im still not over her but I am getting there, there really isnt much that you can do. You can try dating other people but it didnt work for me.. But like some one told me time heals all things..........even brokrn hearts....Gods Speed !!
2007-03-26 09:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lil' K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to keep busy, take your mind off of it, meet someone new, hang out with people. Don't just sit around thinking about it, it will drive you crazy.
2007-03-26 08:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋