my friend britt went out with this guy chris for a very long time.
But their relationship has been on and off for most of the time theyve been together. He began texting me and we really hit it off, he said he liked me and i kinda liked him too. He confided in me and said he was tired of giving her so many chances, he wanted to break up with her for good. and then he asked me out. well, i said yes, disregarding the feelings of my friend. Now she really hates me, she claims i stole him away from her, but i really didnt! she cant seem to grasp that. shes forced me to break up with him, but that still wasnt good enough to earn back her trust and friendship. i really adore this kid, hes such a sweetheart and id like to be with him, but i cant because of britt. is there any possible way i can have both? what should i do??
2007-03-26 01:33:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were really her friend, you would have NOT done anything with him, and definitely NOT accepted his offer.
Of all the guys in this freaking world, you obviously disregarded her feelings.
You obviously didn't put yourself in HER shoes.
Have some class, because it won't last.
Your friends are always going to be there and trust me, if he went after you, he won't think twice about going after one of YOUR friends.
2007-03-26 01:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by elidet_reyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First rule of friendship never go out with a friends boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, if ex-boyfriend ask your friend first if she is okay with it if you value that friendship, and to me he doesn't sound like that great of a catch, and after you went out with him the damage has already been done. Put yourself in her shoes and change the situation around, I think you should just go for the guy that will someday dump you and have that on again off again relationship with you just like he did Britt, and complain to his new girlfriend that he is tired of giving you so many chances.
2007-03-26 01:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by celesta_palmer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be prepared. The past has a way of repeating itself. Odds are it's just a matter of time before Chris is texting one of your friends. Do you really want to date someone that would do to you what he's doing to Britt?
Just a thought
2007-03-26 01:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Reggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should have told your friend that he asked you out and that you liked him before you started dating him behind her back. Anyway if she is really a good friend, you must decide if you want to do the following:
- sacrifice a good friendship that might have lasted for years for just a temporary relationship with a guy who might cheat on you as well in the future
2007-03-26 01:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by argiman1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
eih are they officially off when he asked you out?if yes then you stole your friends boyfriend..the times when his texting you, are they still together?if yes then you did steal the guy..though it's not intentional and you can't control your feelings and his, you still hurt her in one way or another..even if you said sorry and will break up with him, the damage is done and a broken bottle is hard to make it whole again..you can't have both because that's selfish, if you were in your bestfriends situation, how would you feel if you bestfriend is your ex-boyfriends girlfriend and you want them to treat each other as friends..that's impossible..you have to choose one and stand for it..
2007-03-26 01:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would dump the guy....but if she isn't that good of a friend go for the guy..but if he was a good guy he would not of gone after his girlfriends friend now would he? Do you want a guy like that? Maybe you have another friend that he may like instead of you some day!!
2007-03-26 01:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you & him had something pretty special all along & he left you for the sex I guessW /her. Don't know what to tell you about your friend . Things happen for a reason . if she really is your friend then someday she'll see the light because you were or should have been w/ him all along.
2007-03-26 01:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss with britt and try to evolve an agreement
thats what i wd suggest do not ditch your freind britt
2007-03-26 01:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is Britt you`re best friend or a good friend...............cuz if yes........the i doubt that you can have both.................cuz a rule says never a ex- or boyfriend from you`re girl ...............it doesnt matter if they are not together anymore...........that dont work............you have to make a decision.......
2007-03-26 01:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by night_age_germany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant have both, and you already put pressure on your friendship so I'd probably try and see how things go with the guy, because you've already gone there.
2007-03-26 01:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by sleepyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋