My boyfriend told me he sometimes fancies guys. He says he still loves me and that he's not totally gay, just bi. Should i still stay with him???
2007-03-26 01:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yucko !!!
make sure you use a condom
2007-03-26 01:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by whydoesapenguin? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay with him. Staying with him would just bring a lot of heart ache and drama. My brother-in-law's father is gay. He tried to have it both ways, being gay and having a family, He came out when my brother-in-law was in high school and you can just imagine what happened. I'm not trying to be a gay heater but I do not think it would work out and if you two would have children it wouldn't be fair for them when they grew up thinking their parents where together as man and wife. I'm not saying gay couples can not have children but I think if a man ,as in this case, marries and has children but knows he gay creates a secret that will hurt them in the long run.
2007-03-26 01:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by heidi t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should stay with him, he's still the same guy you love, just bi. Someones orgin doesn't change who they are, or if you love them or not.Bi, Gay and Straight people all have feelings. But if you'd rather pefer a straight guy then go ahead and leave him.
2007-03-26 01:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by justinsbabygurl21406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you. If you are OK with his sexuality and trust him to be faithful then stay. If you are not comfortable or you feel like he can't be faithful to you then leave.
This is one of those things that you and he need to talk about. Does he want to stay with you but have men on the side/ Does he know he can resist the other side of his sexuality?
You need to know what his expectations are and he needs to know yours.
2007-03-26 02:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is going to be with boys as well as you, then I think that you are in a bad situation. You deserve someone that wants to be with you only...not with other women or other men...you need a man that can put all of his attention on you...I don't this guy will do that...
Move on Girl!
2007-03-26 01:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think you should stay with him
i think that this friendship is not normal and for it to be normal, it is bettter to have a boyfriend who is not gay.
i mean who knows, he might turn into a "total gay" oneday.
2007-03-26 01:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by miss_arabian_gulf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be worried about him getting some disease from a guy and passing it to you....Dump him....Run far & Run fast. I'm sure you can do much better anyway!!!
2007-03-26 01:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by M J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no move on u dont need to share find someone who will b faithful to u if u share u could end up with a disease.good luck
2007-03-26 01:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by paultoledo34 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa...
i pity your dilemna.
ask yourself this question.
is everyone perfect?
can you love him even through his imperfections?
do you think you can still love him and live with him?
if you can answer these questions i think you'll make your decision.
Hope is the correct one!
2007-03-26 01:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE him..its gd 4 u.
2007-03-26 01:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋