my 2 yr old is still in dipers and every time i change her she kicks me and screams. Shes starting to phsyically hurt me what can i do?
2007-03-26 01:33:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
at the moment i dont feel she is ready to be potty trained i have adopted her as her mother has died her mother spoilt her but i have tryed and she just refuses she just picks up the potty chucks it and shouts no so i dont want to push her but i cant stand getting kicked.
2007-03-26 01:41:24 · update #1
if you are going to say disipline sugest a form of it plz.
2007-03-26 01:43:58 · update #2
also most the time she is in pull up pants but when i have to clean her up its easyer to put her on the mat.and some times she has to be in normal nappys because the pull ups if she gets angry she has a tendansey to take them off and poop on the floor
2007-03-26 01:50:33 · update #3
slap her little butt and tell her to stop that..stop being miss nicey nicey kiddo if shes hurting you ..hurt her back..it worked for my kids and get that rugrat to a bathroom
2007-03-26 01:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
your daughter is not old enough to potty train anyway
not till she's 2 and half should you worry bout that at all
try lightly but just enough to hurt smacking her bare leg when she kicks and tell her to stop and if she doesnt then put her in time out for 1 minute per year of age
if she gets out put her back till she's there an entire 2 minutes
she might not know she's hurting you
that worked wonders with my daughter who has just in the last few weeks started potty training
2007-03-26 07:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by squeaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Father of 6 and stay at home dad. Pull trousers or tights down to ankles rip sides of pull ups and then hold trousers between ankles which are now like a pair of hand cuffs.
changing nappies one handed can be done and the feet can be moved up or down to suit. Good luck.
2007-03-26 02:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two suggestions:
1) When you changer her lay her sideways so her feet aren't pointed towards you.
2) Buy pullups and if it is just pee change her standing up, she just needs a quick rinse. Poo diapers can either be changed normally (pullups open at the sides) or standing up in the tub, particularly if you have a hand held shower head.
In either case try distraction, buy some toys she only gets while being changed.
Shes really been through too much to start disciplining her for something that is relatively normal kid behaviour.
2007-03-26 01:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
My son does the same. Sometimes distracting him with a toy helps but not for along and not all the time!
Just get it over and done with as soon as possible.
At 2 years I would be looking to start potty training.
2007-03-26 01:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Take the shoes off first thing, and just keep putting her legs back down. It is time to start thinking about potty training. Go to Charmin.com and they have a free kit, or they use to to help with potty training.
2007-03-26 01:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You need to discipline her. Do you watch Maury Povich, when the teens are on there beating up their moms. Well, this is where it starts. You need to nip it in the bud now!
Honestly, you NEED to start the potty training process, but the important thing here is to teach her it is NOT ok to kick someone, especially your mommy, when you don't get your way. It sounds like she is the one in control of this relationship, and it will only get worst.
You said suggest a form of discipline. I believe in spankings.
2007-03-26 01:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by CJ 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Distraction is your best weapon. TV, a book, sing a song (ie she makes the animal noises in old macdonald etc), pretend to be the "nappy fairy" who gives a chocolate/grape/raisans etc to any good girls that change their nappy nicely.
Have you tried those pull up ones? Really make out what a good clever girl she is wearing those ones.
Good luck!
2007-03-26 01:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by DemonicaB 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I sing ABC's to JD when I change his diaper. Or I try to sing the little songs I sing to him but REALLY LOUD when he's pitching a fit. :o) I also tilt my head back and forth so my ponytail goes every which a way! He find it's hilarious! LOL GL! *www.happysahm.com*
2007-03-26 06:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pop her on the butt and make her realize that she is hurting you. but most imporatantly you need to start potty training her. That may be her whole problem is that she wants to start using the potty. Buy pullups and see if that helps any but start potty training asap
2007-03-26 01:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by supermom12042702 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's called discipline. Grab her foot, hold it firm & tell her NOT TO KICK YOU in very strong terms. Do it every time she does it to you and she'll stop soon enough. She is testing you & you had better get a handle on it quick. She'll soon try something else & you'll have to take care of that too - it's the nature of children vs adults !! She has to learn to respect you & the rules of life even at this young age
2007-03-26 01:39:40 · answer #11 · answered by Lucy 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋