my 2 yr old is still in dipers and every time i change her she kicks me and screams. Shes starting to phsyically hurt me what can i do?
2007-03-26 01:32:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
at the moment i dont feel she is ready to be potty trained i have adopted her as her mother has died her mother spoilt her but i have tryed and she just refuses she just picks up the potty chucks it and shouts no so i dont want to push her but i cant stand getting kicked.if you are going to say disipline sugest a form of it plz. also most the time she is in pull up pants but when i have to clean her up its easyer to put her on the mat.and some times she has to be in normal nappys because the pull ups if she gets angry she has a tendansey to take them off and poop on the floor
2007-03-26 01:49:54 · update #1
Slap her little butt and tell her to lay still. Doesn't have to be hard but let her know your in charge and that behavior is not acceptable.
2007-03-26 01:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
Start potty training even if you don't think she's ready. She's telling you she's ready by making such a fuss. Now is the time for propaganda, tell her she wouldn't have to do this if she's go in the potty. I would try the potty party method, where you have a potty doll that gets a big party every time it goes and if she will go to, she gets the party.
2007-03-26 02:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you hold onto her feet so she can't kick? Does she have any kind of problem there, like a rash or sore? Something could be causing her pain so when you change her, it hurts and she's unable to tell you without acting out due to her age. Does she act like this at bath time? Check things out and if all is ok, try introducing the potty. You might also check with her doctor for other suggestions. Good luck.
2007-03-26 01:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me Alone 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When she decides to fight you finish clean her and put her straight in to time out.two minutes would be best at her age,when her time out is over sit her down and tell her that it's not nice for her to kick and it hurts you. Let her know that every time she does it she's going in time out. Keep it simple so you don't confuse her..Also you mentioned you've adopted her and she sounds like she maybe having trouble adjusting, you may want to looking to a therapy play group, or speak to a behavioral therapist. Good Luck.
2007-03-26 02:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by bubbas_bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 11:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by bocklund 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey try changing a nine year old bum ! my son is severley autistic and still in nappies (dipers) and its tough but hun you should think of potty training your little one maybe the kicking and screaming is 'Mum get me outta these dipers'
good luck !
2007-03-26 01:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sounds like shes ready for the potty. every time she kicks you, after you change the diaper, make her sit in time out for 5 minutes and tell her no kicking. if you hit her back she will most likely kick harder next time
2007-03-26 01:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try introducing her to the potty and see if she prefers that. Have you tried pull up pants? With these you can encourage her to wipe herself with wet wipes and you won't get kicked in the process. Good luck
2007-03-26 01:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I used to hold my baby's legs down. tell her frimly to stop kicking. If she doesn't then make her sit in the corner in disgrace for ten minutes. She will soon learn.
No need to smack for that!!!!
2007-03-26 02:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years old you need him out of Nappies ASAP! I would forget about the kicking and get him toilet trained.
You should use the pull up and down nappies as then they can remain standing - this will also help your child get used to pulling pants up and down.
Would recommend you join www.mumsnet.com there are loads of ideas to help with potty training.
2007-03-26 01:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by greendee 1 · 1⤊ 5⤋