My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other since 8 years, in between we were off for a little while and sometimes we have been on and off. Off late things got a little out of hand. She was busy with work and so was I, so we would fight a lot and I would get frustrated and yell at her a lot. She says things got really bad for her. She decided to take a break for a month and during that month she felt like going out with another guy at her workplace. She felt guilty because she felt like she going out with him; she was very confused and over the past few months has perhaps fallen a little out of love for me. I felt the same but after she decided to call it if I realize what I had done and I want to make things better. She says she is not sure if she can feel the same way about me and perhaps I should move on. However we spoke for a very long time and we decided to give it one more try, the next days she was unsure again. I have a feeling she does not love me. I want to win her back.
2007-03-26 01:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just like to add that we have known each other since a very long time. Of the 8 years we were going out for 5 of those, however only the last 3 years have been very serious. We are only 23 and 24. We got back for a brief moment but she said she was confused again. She does not want to be committed but does not want to stop being physical with me. Should I just stay away or just go along with what she wants. Do I need to act differently???? As in be nicer or I don’t know how to act with her
2007-03-26 01:37:09 · update #1
Stop chasing. Do you want her, if she don't want you? Let her know how you feel, pull back and see what she does.... Don't just grab her the minute she comes close, give it some time. I did this wrong and lost the love of my life.... Pay attention to what she says, and listen.
2007-03-26 01:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by BryTheFishGuy.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't control the way she feels about other people by the way it looks it seems liike she has fallen in love with the other man and if she can't seem to make up her mind then u just need 2 move on
2007-03-26 08:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after 8 yrs you are still not married there is something wrong. Better to move on and find someone that you would marry.
2007-03-26 08:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you didn't marry in 8 years one of you did NOT want to commit to the other.......MOVE ON..don't go backwards in life..ever for anyone....
2007-03-26 08:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seems to be late this time wait till she has another break
2007-03-26 08:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋