ok..i love this guy soo much! Even though hes my ex, i still love him soo much. ok heres the story
When we were going out,he wanted to hold my hand but it was the 2nd day we were going out. so i was a lil scared,and also because his friend is always bothering me. Well we didnt last long. He broke up with me to go out with another good friend of mine. They were going out and it really made me mad. because they started going out the day after we broke up. so i just kinda ignored them. Kept all my feeling inside. and then on a friday night he called me and asked me if i would go back out with him. so i said yes because he told me that he wasnt going out with my friend. so he wasnt at school for a few days cus we both were very mad. and when he comes back he started goiong out with my friend again. and then he just broke up with her to go out with me.. but now after 2 months he broke up with me again to go out with her. and she keeps braggin to me and crap.. and its makin me mad... ok HELP
2007-03-26 01:16:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems like jerk alert. It is obvious that your friendship is on the rocks as you both let some guy come between you two. Do you not understand that this boy.. your ex is manipulative and messing about with you both.
This is happening because you are letting him treat you this way. The reason why he is coming back and forth with you is because he thinks he can.. in other words.. your easy to pursue. I dont mean that as an insult but thats the impression your giving him, for example.. if you say 'yes' everytime he asks to take you back.
I think you should work on your friendship and move on to the decent guy that comes along. Your young, you shouldnt be wasting your time with selfish guys like this.! Girls shouldnt act like a door mat or be slave to men.. life is tooo short!
good luck to you.
2007-03-26 01:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by girly20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't really identify with you, but i fell in love with my ex/first after we broke up, i had done cheated on him and everything and i know for a fact that he was cheating on me, two wrongs didn't make a right but i was drunk and it just happened, anyways u need to try your best to get over him, it will be hard and i'm not saying that its gone be easy, if he feels that he needs to keep breaking up with you to be with her then he doesn't realize what he has with you. You're not the problem it's him, and if your friend was any friend, she wouldn't have gone out with him in the first place. If my ex/first would ask me to get back with him today or tomorrow i would despite all the dirty things he has done to me, made me do and tried to make me do. The people who know me would say that i am very stupid and dumb but they don't understand how i feel, i try to get over him but everytime i do i see him or he wants to do this or do that. Well i hope you make the decision that's right for you and not for anybody else.
2007-03-26 08:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i u trust ur self , i think u should make the same thing , go out with his friend .but in steps ,
first :start asking him alot about his fr.
second : try to meet his fr. (by chance) :) any where and be sure he will tell ur fr.
third : try to go out with his fr. and never tell his fr. that u still love ur fr.
he may return back.
2007-03-26 08:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by Vodoo2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a player, who when he cant get from you goes to your friend and when she dosnt give him anymore he comes back to you.. sounds like hes using the both of you
2007-03-26 08:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both treating you like sh** have nothing to do with either of them. Pretend they no longer exist and never did.
2007-03-26 08:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw the both of them the same thing happend to me and i just said screw the guy just put him out of your mind and try to be happy for your friend ,i know its hard ,but it works
2007-03-26 08:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by maddy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋