2007-03-26 00:56:16 · 25 answers · asked by WWW.MYHIBRID.COM 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should just leave her!! did she hint that she wanted to leave? is she visibly unhappy? if anything like that is going on, than even if she says "she loves you" then you have to know she can't mean that! do you have proof that she's done things? if you've got the proof honey, then have enough self-respect to just end it already! even if you just suspect that she is cheating, you can't trust her, and that will permanently damage the relationship. do you have any reasons to stay with her? after 5 years, i'm sure you love her, but is she worth it? this won't be the last time. i've been with 3 guys that have cheated on me, and the saying really is true, "once a cheater always a cheater". don't try to work things out with her, you will only get hurt again. I'm so sorry that you are going through that, and i hope you are ok!! email if you want to talk, ok? best wishes in this situation. ♥
2007-03-26 08:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by sexykaeley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is often best to get hurt only once than keep having to go through the same old thing with a cheater. if she picked someone over u, and never told u she had a problem, giving u no chance to make things better, than she isn't an honest forthright person anyway. best to move on with someone else who doesn't cheat on u, than to try to forgive something u have no guarantee won't happen again. once the cheating begins, that may mean she isn't happy with u, not your fault, but we just can't have people like that in our lives if we expect happiness.
2007-03-26 01:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with here, and make her feel very sorry for what she did.
Then leave her when you get a better girl.
Or else if you really love her, talk to her why she did it?
the moral of story, this relation cannot stay long as you already know she doing some henky penky to you, so she lost the trust from you. in the end you will fight forever.
2007-03-26 01:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by gowcu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to wrap things up and end it all with her. Who knows if she's been cheating on you from the start? I'm not saying that she was. It's possible.
Don't feel sorry that you've lasted that long and she's just out there cheating on you. Break it up. It's better to forget abut her than you let yourself be fooled for the rest of your life.
2007-03-26 01:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As stated, it's time to look elsewhere. In her defense though, after five years, she is probably looking for more of a commitment than being a "girlfriend".
2007-03-26 01:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch... but you gotta let her go... it's the best thing to do for everyone... you're gonna have a chance to date someone you deserve and your girlfriend could be together with the guy she's cheating with...but if you don't wanna lose her... it's better to talk to her first about her issues... but it will be hard specially if she denies it...good luck then...
2007-03-26 01:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lamwitchgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run just as fast as my little legs would carry me.
Get tested for STD's
thank God I was out of that relationship and someone else has the cheating %$#*&
2007-03-26 01:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jo Blo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this depends on how true to yourself you want to be. if its realtrue, then i see no other choice. its over. your relationship will never be the same no matter what you do. its unfortunate i know. and it hurts a great deal. but your setting yoursself up for even more misery by staying in the relationship. im sorry, this is going to be very hard. good luck to you
2007-03-26 01:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by licherbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exercise the difference between girlfriend and wife.
2007-03-26 01:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make her my ex-girlfriend of five years.
2007-03-26 01:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋