A couple of weeks ago I was playing with the video mode on my mobile phone and I heard my housemate calling out my name. I walked into his room and saw him doing himself with one hand and holding a photo of me in the other. I was really shocked at the time but obviously flattered as well. However, now things are REALLY awkward between us, he hasn't looked me in the eye for two weeks. I tried telling him I was really sorry to walk in on him and that its O.K. I don't mind him thinking of me while he does it. But every time I mention it he turns red and leaves the room, especially when my girlfriend is around. I have showed him that I deleted it from my phone (although I admit I did save it to my computer just in case he annoys me one day and doesn't do what he is told). I don't want him to move out or anything as he is actually very nice and does most of the housework for me and my girlfriend. I am not interested in him as anything more than a friend mind you.
2007-03-26 00:25:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you are sorry, there is not more that you can do! it was an accident and he just feels embarrassed, a gorgeous woman such as yourself walking in on his most intimate of moments!! he cannot help but feel ashamed, but it will die down in the next couple of weeks you must give it time! maybe do a show for him for free, and not in exchange for housework, it may perk him up a little!!!!!
2007-03-27 01:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by fear of the dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one thing is, you should NOT have walked into a room without knocking and hearing "Come in" first. And obviously he is embarrassed. Why in hell are you mentioning this to him in front of your girlfriend anyway??? How childish is that? Severely childish!! Leave him alone. Stop embarrassing him more and get over the fact that he had done this. If he wants to talk about it, he'll come to you, but you are not making his life easier. And if he does move out, I wouldn't blame him one bit. Grow up and get over the fact that he had your picture in hand.
2007-03-26 07:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a video of you doing yourself with one hand and looking at a picture of your girlfriend in the other. He'll get the message that you are unattainable but he will still stick around and clean the house for you in the hopes that you let him watch the two of you.
2007-03-26 07:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by bubbacornflakes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure there is anything more you can do. You handlede it very well, and have tried to make him feel okay with it. But I have to say, it's wrong for you to keep that video, no excuses... it's not yours to keep without his permission. How would you feel if the tables were turned??? Just do the right thing...delete it!
2007-03-26 07:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by JP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you give him some pity sex, the fact that you walking in on him will not matter any more. Its called taking on for the team. Plus how bad can it be since you think he is a nice guy.
2007-03-27 04:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing you can fix. He is obviously deeply embarrased as he was caught by you.. Do not mention it to him at all. Just pretend as if it has never happened and be normal around him as much as you can.... If he likes you, he will let you know.,.,
2007-03-26 07:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Elisa N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just happened to be playing with your video phone? he calls out your name when he's at it?? why does he have a picture of you?... hmm i smell a rat.. not very believable my dear..
2007-03-26 07:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by peachesandcream 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try knocking next time
2007-03-26 07:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Definately Maybe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want him to do even more homework you could give him a lingerie pic of yourself.
2007-03-26 07:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋