So i would firstly like advice that isnt rude thanks. Well im usally go out with mates and my ex every saturday night. My ex sleeps over at mine. We seem to keep having sex. Does this mean he still may have feelings for me. He also still just randomly hugs me out of the blue. We have been seperated for 2mths after being toghter for 4 and a half years. Do u think there is a chance of getting back together???
2007-03-26 00:13:11 · 7 answers · asked by shoegalkb007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the current situation - it is healthy , whatever keeps you both happy , dont stress!
no matter the outcome you will always think of an ex over the years . it may mean it will work , and may not , and here is the cliche , in the end follow your heart.
2007-03-26 00:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a chance of getting back? .. I think first you need to ask yourself if you want to get back with your ex. If you have broken-up, it must have been for some reason. Are you ready to get over that reason and is your ex ready for that as well?
The fact that you are still having sex after breaking up is in my opinion not a good thing. It will keep you stuck in the middle .. you will have the feelings you are having right now .. of neither being in the relationship and nor being completely out of it either. It will not allow you to move on in life. Even if you do think that you can get back, stop having sex with your ex, untill you work on the things that went wrong and untill you both agree to get back in a relationship.
It sure will be difficult to stop getting physical after being in a relationship for such a long time. What you need to do is not create circumstances which lead to you both getting physical. Such as or you both being alone together or him staying over at your place. You need to make some tough choices. Good luck!
2007-03-26 01:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Magix 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought that maybe hes just Using you for a Booty call, or that maybe if he keeps the relationship like it is, seeing you occasionally he can keep you hanging on, so you will not move on. Hes playing the Field right now. He does not want to lose you just in case he cannot find anything better to fool around with. Remaining Friends after a break up is one thing, allowing yourself to be used for Sex is another.
2007-03-26 00:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you all are sleeping together, then i would say yes you do have a chance in getting back together. You should ask him if he would like to get back together if you still have feelings for him. Don't let him sleep with you all the time if you are not together, maybe once in a while! LOL!!!! Good luck!!
2007-03-26 00:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you opt for to seem deep interior your self and determine out why you're harboring such thoughts, and desires. per chance some thing at found on your existence is pointing out similar thoughts of once you've been consisting of your ex. you say both of you're nonetheless best of acquaintances. Ding! She's nonetheless on your existence, in all likelihood bringing back those efficient reviews you had consisting of her. that possibly you opt for to administration previous themes linked on your previous relationship in the previous you move onto the single consisting of your modern gf. Who is conscious.. only make the effort to duplicate, and determine out your self. best of success to ya.
2016-12-02 20:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by sarro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm... why did u break up in the first place? obviously for a reason.. just depends how big of a reason why, determines if you should let it go too far. especially if he was the one who finished with you?
2007-03-26 00:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are just friends with benefits... and all he wants is an easy lay... maybe you need to have sex with other guys too... :D
2007-03-26 00:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋