I had been dating this guy for the past one year .. Yesterday he told me this "I think I could never have enough of holding you close....and admiring your body minutely".
We shared nothing beyond kisses and hugs but I guess im falling inlove with him. I never told him how I feel. All he said to me was that he likes me a lot. The reason why I never had an intimate relationship with him is because one I thought it was too soon, and second I was not ready then. But he seem to take it positively. Just wondering if he is still lusting after me or is he falling in love with me?
2007-03-26 00:08:18 · 5 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a fact that most guys think about sex during the course of a day. The fact that he isn't forcing himself on you is a great credit to him. He is respecting you! That takes a lot for most guys to hold back. Guys are sexual people too. He says he likes you and you are falling in love with him. So what's the hurry? He is waiting for you and in a big way. If you really want to know if he loves you tell him what you are thinking. A relationship should be open and honest. If you can ask perfect stranges is he lusting after to me or falling in love with me why can't you ask him? If you really want to know tell him you love him. See what his answer is. But, you need to be ready for any answer and be willing to know that he may not tell you he loves you back. Give the guy a change he is respecting your wishes about sex. It is hard for most guys to hold back from that when they have emotional feelings for you. I say give the guy a pat on the back. Good luck!
2007-03-26 00:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rosa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a pretty patient guy who is involved for a year and doesnt go beyond hugs and kisses, sounds like the real deal. if it were lust i think he would have sought it elsewhere before now
2007-03-26 07:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a fine line where guys make the transformation from lust to love.... its hard to tell... it took my boyfriend at least a month to reaslise how he felt he would say i like you alot then it lead to i like you alot and alot within a months time he was ready and comfortable to say i love you..... dont rush it.... just wait and see.... be yourself and enjoy your time with him. obviously he means alot to you so take it easy and time will tell... good luck!
2007-03-26 07:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by just_jemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him that - but I'd think love can be accomplished in a year.
2007-03-26 07:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using honeyed words to get into your panties... Done it myself and it works all the time... Bet you are just about ready to give it up, after those words were said... ;)
2007-03-26 07:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋