I got married over 4 months ago and never met my inlaws. We stay in touch via emails or myspace. My brother in law is dating a girl for a while now, Just over a year I think and I trued everything I can think of to get to know her but with no luck. I emailed her my details, added her to myspace, commented on her page and pic and even made a blog for her and my bro in law to read and still no response. I move to their country in June and I really wanted some background knowledge on her. Do you think she isnt interested in being my friend? I am getting tired of trying here and theres only so much I can take. Do you think I should give up or keep trying?
2007-03-25 23:31:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen you tried everything you can...so the ball is in her court now.
Don't worry about it anymore and your right there's only so much you can do .Try again in about a month and if she doesn't want to accept your extension of friendship then....than don't bother anymore...you've done all you can...good luck
2007-03-25 23:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dodgegirl62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
well, this is tough..I would email her one more time,and let her know how you feel,and that you have been trying to contact her,,and that you would realy like to get to know her.....
I would give it that one last shot,and then call it quits.
Its you and your husband that are in the relationship - not you and the inlaws.
Have you talked to your husband about the situation - he might be able to lighten things up a bit.
Just remember if all else fails,you have to live with him,not the inlaws
good luck
2007-03-25 23:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should focus on your marriage and not worry to much about your future sister in-law. I understand wanting to know a little about her before meeting in person but the important thing is your marriage.
You are a part of the family and in time you will be able to meet them all.
So keep the option open but don't go out of your way trying to get her to respond to you.
2007-03-25 23:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rustb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your husband say? Is this normal behaviour from them? Does he speak to them? I guess it depends on how important the friendship is to you. It sounds to me like you've made a huge effort so maybe leave it for a while and see if you get any response. Maybe spend more time getting to know neighbours/friends who can be more supportive of you and your move to a new country. Good luck!
2007-03-25 23:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Nic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over with your husband what does he think? Personally I don't like wasting my time on people that don't show respect of some sort.Good luck
2007-03-25 23:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care. Life's too short to be overly concerned over one person's opinion. Let it go and what happens will happen.
2007-03-25 23:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by JMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people prefer to get to know people face-to-face. Maybe she's one of them. Or.........it might just be that she's being rude and inconsiderate, who knows.
2007-03-25 23:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up.. dont even try again, she is inconsiderate and rude anyway.
2007-03-25 23:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋