2007-03-25 23:16:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What do you thing is more important! I presume you are a man. Do you not have in your mind a picture of the girl you want to marry?, if not, you are probably not ready for marriage. Trust your judgement.
2007-03-25 23:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by jnanp2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. Your parents need to join the rest of us in the 21st century, where arranged marriages no longer occur.
You will eventually find a man you want to marry, or maybe not. Marriage is not a requirement,
2007-03-26 06:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by blakereik 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something. If you get married for the wrong reasons, you can certain that marriage is not going to last. Now, I don't know all the details, but I do know that you're old enough to make your own decisions. You can't allow your parents to run your life. The fact that you're asking kind of implies that you're not sure about this whole marriage thing. Nowhere is it written that you have to be married before a certain age. Wait it out. You'll be glad you did.
2007-03-26 06:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
hi,it will not be fair for u to wait for some more time.But it is not assumed that u will do a proper arranged marriage.U can also do an arranged-***-love marriage.I also did the same.my husband is 25 only.So just go ahead and decide which type of girl u want to be ur life partner.If u r getting one,then take some time.Mix with her and talk with her.Be free with her to discuss ur personal matters and then marry her.Surely u will have a happy marriage.
2007-03-26 06:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Susri M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
arranged marriage is not a forced act
check it out when u see the girl
whom ur parents say, if something like
chemistry happens life feeling a new
blood in u a bulb lighted on head
a bell ringing be it arranged or
love u should love her and she should
love u be it after or before marriage
ALL THE BEST
2007-03-26 09:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to discuss with your parents that if they are forcing you to get married it might have an impact later as you don't know the person you going to marry, you need to understand him and he needs to understand you for a marriage to work, it looks like you are not interested in getting married right now and are doing so only because of parents pressure, so explain to them and ask them to give it time you will find your prince charming.
2007-03-26 06:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Christopher D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't say wait for what. I assume wait for love to show up in life. Yes wait. And be proactive in finding a mate. Date more women. Never go for arranged marriage. It is prostitution and you will never be able to forgive yourself or set an example for your own children.
2007-03-26 06:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by Kannan J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for arranged marriage at the earliest. If u wait u will lose the chance.
2007-03-26 09:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
26 is still soo young!! I am facing the same problem, socially and morally it is difficult but you should try and resist it. Stand up for your self as this is YOUR life we are talking about. You still have plenty of time even though society somehow tries to make you feel otherwise. So I would suggest to wait, but be open to your parents suggestions as trough them you might be able to meet someone who may be the good match!
Good luck with all this, you can contact me if you need to talk about it more!
2007-03-28 17:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
marriage is not that easy, don't Let anyone decide for you, it's your Life, if arrange marriage wiLL ruine your Life, you wiLL suffer, not them, marry someone that you reaLLy Love, and who aLso Loved you and ready to be with you and stay Loving you in Life's ups and downs, get married if you are aLready stabLe and responsibLe enough to have a famiLy of your own, being married is a big responsibiLity.. being singLe gives you more freedom and more time to serve GOD..
2007-03-26 06:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by weirdsome_yme 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋