what if your firend gets pregnant and the first time she told you that she said the her bf is the father then later on she told you the truth that a certain textmate that she had is the real father, so now we dont know the truth we dont kow if we'll still believe her. . and she's been actin so weird lately, she is so sensitive right now and we are now gettin irritated because she is now so exagerrated we dont want to hurt her feelings so we just kept those comments for us but we still want her to know how we feel . .please help us
2007-03-25 23:15:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It is really up to her to tell the truth-but as her friend, I strongly encourage you to encourage HER to do that. Especially before the baby is born to save the baby the confusion. Yeah, her boyfriend may leave her, but then again, maybe he won't. If he does, y'all will definately need to be there for her. Hopefully, she learned her lesson.
2007-03-26 02:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by MamiZorro2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her mom and tell her what has happened and ask her to talk to her daughter. Depending on her age, if the Textmate is the father for real and he is over the age of consent he will face jail time. What she is exhibiting is confusion, fear and anger and mixed emotions can make anyone sound nuts. Don't abandon her but rather love her and support her. Sounds like a very confused young lady. This is an emotional time for her. Stand by her and God Bless.
2007-03-26 06:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, i hate to say this but it really is ONLY her concern and the fathers concern. Frankly, I doubt any of you will know who the father is until the child is born and only IF they decide to do a paternity test.
Your friend is terrified and needs support, so leave her to her vices and help her get through this pregnancy as best you can.
2007-03-26 09:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this happened to someone we knew in high school but the real father was her stepfather. The bottom line is that if she has lied, there is no telling who the real father is - better tell her mother or a teacher so that something bad doesnt happen.
2007-03-26 09:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're feeling irritated ! Imagine how she feels - possibly very confused and unsure what to do - so try to be a bit more understanding and remember who the father is really isn't your concern
2007-03-26 06:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by questioneer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell you the truth and tell the guy who thinks he's the father.
2007-03-26 07:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i would tell her how i feel bcuz she lied to you den expects you to put up with her bs
2007-03-26 13:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Princess K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋