My best friend is trying to work thing out with her ex (Mark), the only man she has ever loved. I just found out that he is living with another woman and she doesn't know it. Not only that they bought a house together. My friend has some major health problems right now. I am afraid if she finds out about Mark and that thing he is with. It could "no joking" really kill her. My delema is, I hate keeping this from her, but I don't think she could handle it either. She doesn't deserve what this man has put her through, I haven't met anyone who didn't like her. She is the type of person that puts everyone before herself (expecially Him). I have seen her take the last dime she had just to help another. I need any advice I can get at this time... We have tried to tell her that he doesn't deserve her and that he has used and mistreated her from day one. She is just blinded by him, Help! Advice Need!!
2007-03-25 22:43:52 · 1 answers · asked by wildfire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love her and be there for her but, butt out, don't interfere. Eventually she will have to accept things for what they really are in her own good time sometimes people pretend not too know whats going on but really there not ready to admit it. You do not want to be the one to tell her because they never really appreciate it I don't care what any one says often the teller ends up not being around anymore God bless your friend and your a good friend for her to have you care.
2007-03-25 22:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋