Ladies Do You Share Everything With Your Husbands/Boyfriends?

Question

I need some positive feedback here on this subject,

So ladies? do you share everything?, do you hold things back?. in your own words help me out here, please.

Answer 1

He is my love,my lover, my best friend and my confidante....I talk about my innter most feelings....I talk about my hurt, I talk about what makes me sad and what makes me happy. I will tell him when something exciting has happened in my day. I talk about the state of politics. I talk about the poor and starving of this world. I talk about money problems, I talk about my future fears and needs. I talk about Christianity, Religion....the list is too long.....we talk about everything. He trusts me as I trust him and both of us have a wonderful relationship.....we are everything to each other and there is nothing we cant discuss. We are both intelligent human beings and there is no subject we cannot touch on. We are just as open in the bedroom as out of it. I think we have perfect open honest communication between us. What I refuse to do is to tell him anything negative about himself....I love him, I dont want to hurt him. If he has leftover food on his mouth...I dont tell him what a grub he is, I will kiss him and share his leftovers.....lol. If he is wearing a shirt I am not too keen on, I keep it to myself because he is a beautiful person. I could wear a potato sack and he would still think I was the most beautiful woman in the world. I love his body, even his spare tyres. I love his face....I even love his receeding hair line, but most of all, I love his mind. He treats me like his queen and he is my king.....we share everything....we are total equals and no-body holds the reigns in our relationship. We love each other enough to respect the differences. We see each other as individuals....I dont tell him what to do, and he doesnt tell me what to do. I think we have a perfect relationship. If there is such a thing as a soul mate, then he is mine and I am his. I know we will grow old together....well, I guess you could call 53 and 55 old now, but we dont feel it. We enjoy each other as if we were both still 19.

I hope I havent made you sick......lol

Answer 2

There are some things that should never be shared with your husband/boyfriend. Things such as how many men that you have been with. Things such as are they better in bed than your husband/boyfriend, that is private information for you and you only. Neither of these will add to the relationship that you have with your husband or boyfriend.

So there are some things that the husband/boyfriend shouldn't be even asking or the wife/girlfriend shouldn't have to even answer. Some things are private and should be kept to ones self.

Some things may only serve to hurt feeling or even relationships, so some things are better left unspoken or asked.

But there are a lot of things that should be shared in relationships that can only serve to strengthen the bond between two people. One should always use common sense when deciding what should or shouldn't be shared with your partner, as not to hurt any ones feeling.

After all the common goal is to have a strong and beautiful relationship with your partner, it isn't about tearing it down and making your partner feel like less of a person in any way.

After all each person is entitled to have some sense of privacy in their life, even if it is only a small part of their past.

Answer 3

Everything can be boring. And when it's a new boyfriend I definitely keep more secrets! After a few years though a boyfriend of mine would have the ability to take a test on my life and pass because I really don't keep secrets from the ones I love.

Answer 4

man, there is such a fine line there, huh? I would share almost NOTHING with my ex!! LOL!! but that was because he was jealous, controlling, abusive and just plain rotten. the only thing i always told him was how much money went into the bank, never how much went out of it. he would flip at something that he is buying!! But in a normal , good relationship i tell mostly everything, the only thing i keep from him is stupid little things that might hurt his feelings. like no honey, your butt doesnt look to big in that whale outfit!! haha!! honesty is importante.

Answer 5

Noooooo....ive learned that sharing too much with a boyfriends is not a good thing sometimes. Everyone has little secrets and believe me there r some things that your partner just dosent want or need to know

Answer 6

I share anything important with him.I don't bore him with the little things.I don't hold things from him that are important nor do I lie to him.He is an old fashioned guy.He likes being in charge of his castle.Has long has it is running smooth.He isn't one of those people who want to know how things get done around here.Has long has they get done.Like for example our son has medical issues.I take him to the doctor a lot.My hubby knows we are going to see the doctor.But I keep from telling him what we are going for until.I have test results in hand.Because I don't want to worry him if I don't have to.I don't lie to him if he asks directly what we went for.Nor do I keep the results from him.He eventually knows all I just delay certain things until I have all the info.

Answer 7

NOPE!!!! and likewise I do not want him to share everything with me. He knows I am a flirt, I know he is a flirt -- but we don't always know every statement that is made, and I don't want to. I trust him enough to know that while he may be "flirting" with a cute woman, he is not physical with anyone bet me. I am honest 100% if he asks about something, and I expect him to be as well. I feel like part of trust is respecting one's personal sense of some privacy. We share a lot but we don't DIVULGE everything.

It's one of those "need to know" things.

Answer 8

everything?? no not everything you have to be a little bit selfish.
I would never withhold any thing that would jepordize our relationship.
I think to have a little privacy in a relationship is not a bad thing.
I hold back information about my finances telling my partner i have less money than i have (no not for shopping!! i hear you cry) but for security i have money aside if ever we split and i needed to start a new life on my own

Answer 9

On the moment you married with your husband, you have tied with the commitment towards your husband being with him in his happiness and bad days. At this juncture of life, your husband is helpless towards you, because it is his first duty to look after his old mother then at you. If you have love towards your husband from heart, you have to follow him on what he does towards his mother first. You have to support him by giving helping hand as well as talking two good words with your mother in law. It will change the home atmosphere if you started supporting happily to your husband. Every day will be happy day to you. Wish your family like very fruitfull and interesting. All the best.

Answer 10

In the past I have held things back due to lack of trust and fear of judgment. With my husband I tell him everything and he does the same. We trust each other completely and never pass judgment. I have no secrets from him and would never hide anything from him.