Life's been difficult. Problems of education, love, life, friends and family. How to make things easy? It's very stressful to have so many problems to handle at once. When one problem is solved, another will come down rolling. Why is it so hard?!
2007-03-25 22:25:32 · 16 answers · asked by aNjAsMaRa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First you have to weed out all the addicts in your life. No drunks, no druggies, no dead beats that want everything given to them, no girls with babies and no ring. Second of all set a goal for yourself. It should be a goal that you can obtain in 4 years. Third of all make sure you never have sex just for the fun of it. Save it for someone that you think is going to stick around for awhile. All the "problems' you list are simple to solve. It is when you are given a medical problem (cancer) that then you really have it hard.
2007-03-25 22:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some people seem to pass through life without a care, no trials to conquer, no fights to win. People falling at their feet, to be their friends or lovers. The best positions in life are theirs, life is easy, and it is their oyster. There are two types of thies people. One is the empty head that gets it all for free. It just happens to them, and they've learned to expect it. They don't get the life experience to deal with problems they never have. And knowing it or not, their life is emptier than it seems. And if they fall, they have nothing to grab on to, to slow it down. The other one has gotten there climbing over their hardships, battling the demons in their way. The trials in your life are there for you to win or get over. It's life experience, a gift for you, it's not always easy, often sad, but a gift still. It will make you strong in character, and wise in your years. So weep when life overwhelms you. But when you wake, smile, because you are alive, with that there is a future to be had, what ever it turns to. And know this, there will be nothing in your life that you can't battle past. So live well, and honest. Do the best you can, and be happy in that. God bless you well in your journey.
2007-03-27 08:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Perry B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found out that's that the way life is. We often think we are the only one experiencing these problems and nobody else knows how we feel. Well to an extent this is true, For nobody else has the same perspective as we do towards ourselves. I don't know about you but as far as I go I take all the little things and obsess about them until in my mind they become a problem. This in it's self is my problem. I'm still trying to learn how not to do that. But learning I am. What I do is wright down what I think I'm having problems with. fold the piece of paper, Put it in a bowl, And put it in God's hands, Then forget about it. Kinda like a prayer written down. Then let him take care of the problem for me, And I don't have to think about them, Then of course we move onto other little problems and obsess about them.. It's a vicious never ending cycle we humans put our selves through.. Guess to most of us if we don't have problems to worry about we are not happy....So after babbling on... All I can say is (my favorite quote)....."Don't take life so seriously. You're not going to get out of it alive anyway".
2007-03-26 03:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi gf-----sorry things are not falling into place at this time-------in the rhythm of life it seems like we all go through phases that for some unknown reason everything we touch seems to turn to pure crap------you have probably heard the saying "When It Rains---It Pours"-----well this is exactly what is meant by that--------rest assured at some point there will be a turn-around and things will flow smoother once again.----in the mean time prayer might be just the very thing to bring this turn-around faster.-----Good Luck
2007-03-28 12:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I've had that too. You just appreciate the smooth spots in life even more - and realize we don't have control over every single thing in our lives. Appreciate the blessings, pray for strength when things are tough. And although it doesn't seem like it, everyone has a stormy time at some point - when it pours. Don't be fooled just because someone's life looks dull and placid!
2007-03-31 08:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is what u call-Life ! Every one has problems,their is not a single person on this EARTH who is not in Stress.
Only the level of stress is different.So stay calm and let TIME heal it.
Ask for help to only TRUE friends you trust and not everyone.
2007-03-27 06:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called LIFE.This does not mean you succumb to it.You have to learn to see you perceived problems as mirages on your way to your finally destination.Everything in life is relative that which seem worrisome to you maybe laughable to others.If you can not handle a situation,Imagine yourself a week from the problem having fun with another issue.This way you create the results you want in your life,and it shall be so.
2007-03-26 15:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just please don't think about your problems. Something might terrible happen. You might kill yourself. Just think about something else that doesn't make you problematic.
Education- study hard, pay attention in class.
Love- be yourself. find the PERFECT man for you(caring, loving, always there for u)
Life- DO NOT THINK ABOUT DEATH.just be happy and try to forget about your problems.
Friends- Try to make sure that your friend is a true friend.
Treat them the way they treat you ( true friends only)
/be nice to them
Family- Love them. Take care of them. Always be there for your family. Remember they care for you always.
It is hard because that is life. well my life is easy for me now cuz i'm still in 4th grade. Just try to be happy.
2007-03-28 09:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's really difficult but have to find the balance in everything.. try to find a moment or an activity which will allow u to free urself from all the stress
2007-03-25 22:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by nap11t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we make it hard. I am going through all of the same things, education, love, life, family. The truth is we bring it on ourselves, and the only way to pull ourselves out is to just make the extra reach, even when we don't have the strength. Maybe we can borrow strength from those who care about us though. Like our buddies on yahoo answers! ;-)
And don't listen to people like lily who obviously don't know what you are going through!
2007-03-25 22:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋