I've tried ignoring it but he just doesn't notice the mess and we end up living in filth. I have a cleaner who starts this week which will help but the cleaner will clean, not pick up after his lazy ****. Help me, it's driving me crackers!
2007-03-25 22:21:16 · 10 answers · asked by Lancs girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him you cant keep living like this and if he doesn't change then you will have to leave him
this is not how you want to live your life
2007-03-26 00:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its time you sat him down(that wont be hard)and told him exactly how you are feeling, Not sure if he works but if he dont then he is taking the ****
Make up a rota where everyone has there own bits to do.
Failing this show him all the replies you get back on here,The extra money you pay out for a cleaner could pay for something nice like saving towards a holiday......thats where you should have a cleaner!
2007-03-26 00:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him about it, my ex used to complain about how things looked, but never lifted a finger to help and most of the mess was his, we both had full time jobs and I had two kids to look after aswell, he always critisied how I did things but never did anything to help.
We ended getting divorced and guess who's house is unclean and messy - not mine, and I have the two children 24/7 and still work full-time. He on the other hand packed in work so he didn't have to support the children financially, so has all day everyday to clean, but can't be bothered.
2007-03-26 01:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling, my partner is exactly the same and it drives me so mad...the problem is he´s great at everything else, well more or less everthing else...but the roof could fall on his head before he lifts a finger to fix something. the only housework he does is that he occasionally makes the bed! i can be rushed off my feet but he won´t lift a finger to help. Perhaps are anwser would be to stop doing our part (which is the whole part) and see what they do...a kinda strike...if you find a solution let me know...i´ll do the same if i find one
2007-03-26 06:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me, i'd make my own tea, wash my own clothes, do my own shopping etc. and stick to it ridgidly ! If that doesnt work, throw the lazy git out of the house along with his dirty unwashed stuff. I'm a man and i'd never live like that. JEEEESUS your his slave woman !
2007-03-26 07:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by j_clarke2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw out anything that isn't nailed down and usable. Less items, less clutter. He probably won't even miss it to begin with.
2007-03-26 01:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit him over the head with the frying pan ( joke)
just dont do anything for him he'll soon learn. my other half wanted me to do his ironing for work whilst trying to sort out my kid for school and trying to get myself sorted for uni. and got the male whine on. so i went on strike no washing dinner etc he's learnt
2007-03-26 00:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by womble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u stll got pull in the bedroom,i would withold his allowance,i know that would sort me out.if u got no pull sorry thats why he is a slob
2007-03-29 08:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by john t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to buck up his ides or get a place of his own to mess up
2007-03-26 07:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by lizjess2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him ultimatum to quit the habit otherwise you leave him
2007-03-26 02:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋