I am facing lately problems with my bf, i know that he is cheating me. He announced infront of all his family and friends that i am his future lady. and he says that he loves me. he is in the mid 30's right now and until now he didnt take an official step to make our relationship official. He has been making profiles and newtwork girl friends lately and from before, I dont know why he is acting this way.. I forgot also to mention that we are living in different countries. I wish to know why he is breaking my heart although i love him so much and care for him.
2007-03-25 21:33:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there's no solving for this one. get a bfriend near to u. there's a lot out there. he's not the only guy in the world. there's much better near to you. just open your eyes.
2007-03-25 21:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by bern g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though he wants the baby that can be arranged for him to be a good father but he is being honest with you and trying to be truthful so you need to move on not the baby you the baby will never make him love you at all he told you the truth and you need to respect that keep him as a friend for the baby but move on some of this is you fault too you should have found out how he felt before the baby was conceived but he is honest with you about his feelings so don't push the issue if a guy was this honest with me I would respect him for that and move on but keep him as a friend he cares but love no understand the difference He do care enough to tell you the truth respect that and move on.
2016-03-29 06:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult enough to have a boyfriend in the SAME country. He's mature enough to know that as long as you're away, he can do whatever he wants. My advice to you is to end the relationship and find someone else who appreciates your love and affection close to home. Networking can work two ways. Let him know he's not the only man you see and that you're not interested in anyone who cannot respect you and give you a commitment. He can only break your heart if you allow him to do so. Godloveya.
2007-03-25 22:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lonely. You are away. It is very difficult to have a long distance relationship. Is there a good reason for not getting married? If you have been with him a long time, maybe you should push the issue to find out where you stand.
2007-03-25 21:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says that he's with you but his mind is elsewhere. It's a matter of location (or lack there of). Have you asked him about all these girls and how much it would mean to you if he stopped talking to them? Be reasonable, not defensive. If he says that you are his "future lady" you should be able to ask questions like these without fear.
2007-03-25 21:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by ehlonader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are not for everybody. If he's not making things "official" then date another guy.
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2007-03-25 21:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to ur inner voice and not ur heart... 1. hes cheating 2. he wont commit 3. you guys live away from each other.... do u need another reason... ok what about that one's a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater?
2007-03-25 22:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is losing his confidence in you perhaps? Did you do something that he is behaving this way? Maybe he has second thought about your relationship and I think you need to speak to him about it. Ask him what is bothering him and maybe you will tell you? Good luck.
2007-03-25 21:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a every relationship communication is a must.... maybe you don't have a good communication as of now that's why he is acting like that.... try to tell your feelings now... maybe you will get a good explanation from him... good luck...
2007-03-25 21:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you know he's cheating. So you have to decide if you're willing to accept that. If not, then it's time to move on.
2007-03-25 21:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋