In in affair and just very confused. I'm separated frm my husband for 3 years already. I'm still in the affair. I'm in pain to see my daughter haveing two lifes. So I decided to talk to mu husband to come back and after a a year he agreed. But only in next year. He ask me to live with his family and away from my family. But I think I can't go back cause I'm afraid that i still in love my affair and I'm just too scare to hurt my husband but above all my daughter and also I must abise to everything what my husband wants me to do as he says I did a big mistake.. A few horoscope also says that my marriage with my husband will not work after I go back, As an hindu I believe in a bit of astrology they say I will break up as I dont have the marriage luck, So I'm very very scare and confused,Please if you think I'm a **** don't bother to answer. What must I do?? go back for the sake of my daughter and not to hurt my husband's feeling or what?????
2007-03-25 21:04:00 · 5 answers · asked by Larisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is wrong to live with your husband just for the sake of your daughter bringing up children in false environments causes more damage than wen living together.Children are very clever they see and understand more than you think..........Goodluck!!!
2007-03-25 21:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life. You have to be happy with it. Obviously you were not happy with your husband or you would not have had an affair. You are still with that person, so obviously that was better. You can't go back if you don't love your husband. It will make a very poor relationship and will not be pleasant for your daughter. Your husband is making a lot of demands for you to get back together. He doesn't trust you and is going to punish you for your affair. That will not be a good way to live.
For the sake of your daughter, do NOT go back to your husband. It is better for her to have two lives and two homes instead of one miserable one.
2007-03-25 21:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that is suffering the most is your daughter. Both you and your husband need to look at what it's doing to her and figure out if staying together is the best or worst.
2007-03-25 21:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Agin' Rocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in astrology, go see a real astrologist, the horoscopes in the newspaper are too broadly focused to be of any help to you.
You also might want to see a therapist.
2007-03-25 21:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by BOOM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to file for a divorce and be amicable about it if there is no fighting...
If for anything else, your still responsible for any debt he incurs while your separated and vice versa.
2007-03-26 01:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋