I met a very nice guy last weekend and he revealed he has a baby who accidentaly delivered by a casual relationship...and the baby's mum is Japanese and she lives in Japan so he have no relationship with this Japanese girl anymore....
In Japan, we really hate like this situation, even he is nice guy but if we knew he has baby, it really turn us off but I like him.....In western girls dont mind whether guy have baby of not? He is 20's and he is australian...
2007-03-25 20:56:09 · 4 answers · asked by japanese babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dated a man who revealed he had children and it didn't bother me at all, but then again the children were mostly with the mother. I find it attractive to see the soft side of men with children. (or dogs!) :o)
In fact, divorce is so common now in the US that it is very common to date someone male or female with a child.
Honestly, I would prefer the guy not have a child but if he was amazing and everything I dreamed of, I would do it again. Even if he was a full time dad. But I think there is always that feeling of coming second.
2007-03-25 21:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't matter to THIS western girl (ye Haw! Kidding). Seriously, if he is a good, responsible dad (BIG plus!!) and doesn't have a relationship with the mother, than there is no other problem than your worries.
2007-03-26 04:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by ehlonader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't mind if he's got a baby. What I do mind if he's not the serious type & sees impregnating women as a hobby.
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2007-03-26 04:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are aware of reality and understand each other then go ahead.
2007-03-26 04:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by KSSB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋