I'm 13 and I have 2 twin-daughters 13-week-old.Being a teen mother is very exciting for me and I'd like to share that feeling with other teen-mothers.If any teen-girl (mother) wants a friend in similar condition,advice or help feel free to message me.My name's Mary-Kate and I live in Miami.
2007-03-25 20:54:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
La Tania,I was raped and didn't decide to have my children that just happened.But I love them more than everything.And NOTHING is over for me,everything just begins.If you see the opportunity of having a child as the end of your life,not everyone feels it alike.
2007-03-25 21:09:10 · update #1
congratulations on your new family sweetie.Even babysitting a baby for a few hours is hard for me, as an adult! I can't imagine staying up all night with 2 at once. And you are at such a young age that you still might want to have a little fun and have friends, but I bet it has all stopped while you do the diaper and bottle go-round. I bet its hard to stay home taking care of 2. I sympathise. I am sure you have a very very big job at home. I bet they are really really cute though. Hope you have some help.
Aww you poor kid! I figured you were victimized in some way, because just by your age. You are very brave to raise your babies. I do hope someone is helping you. I am serious, it would be hard for me to do by myself and I am grown. I hope you get gramma, mom, auntie, or someone in there to help you. I can imagine two crying at once and running back and forth. Just from babysitting, I find one baby hard to take care of all alone! Hang in there. I'll pray for ya.
2007-03-25 21:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by julliana 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
congratulations im happy you are happy and im pissed with half these people on here with the negative coments yep its no secret your young but you have turned a bad situation in 2 a beautiful event i was teen mum and its funny my son was to smart 4 kinder had to start school early,was speaking like a 6 year oldat 2 1/2, read at grade 6 level when he was 7 on and on and gee im only now 26 gee ive done something right people are very quick to judge but ive heard the most rediculous questions about children on here from adults that it makes me wonder how the hell they even knew how to make a baby so good luck all the best for your future your life IS not over it will only b over if you allow it 2 be. email me if you wanna chat take care stay away from negative people and prove everyone wrong go get em.......
2007-03-25 23:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by www.girl2mum.com 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is odd. And i dont know whether to believe it or not. If you are lying thats pretty crappy b/c RAPE is not something to joke or lie about.
IF its TRUE then i am sorry for what happened to you. You did a brave thing by taking on being a mother at such a young age. Keep in mind though that this is going to be a hard time in your life, but a fun time as well as a lot of other kinds of times.
Kids are GREAT. I should know but tell me, how are you going to feel when seperation anxiety kicks in or you have to potty train them or they are sick and up all night and you have to go to school in the morning or work or whatever.
Do you know what to do about colic, gas, diaper rash that bleeds, constipation, pink eye in infants, how about their shots. Do you get their shots done? I sure hope so b/c those are VERY IMPORTANT.
I hope you are doing what is BEST for them and NOT what is BEST for you. Its not about you anymore.
No more new clothes or shoes or dying your hair etc. KIDDOS COME FIRST.
I was all about new shoes, new clothes, gettin haircuts as often as i could to keep it healthy. I havent had new clothes in 2 years, i only get a new pair of shoes a year, i am potty training while the other is a fairly new one...almost 4 months. So he does shots....gotta make sure they talk to when they are suppose to, etc.
How about toys? Do you have toys that helps them to learn?
Keep in mind these are all the things you are telling us you do and STILL have time to come on here and write about it.
I have my doubts....but...I DONT KNOW!
2007-03-26 08:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad to hear that a 13y/o enjoys motherhood and all the best to you sweetie.
Just brush off the negative comments that people have made. Far to often we don't hear of teen mothers trying to make it happen for their babies.
Despite the age your had your babies and under the circumstances - I would like to ask those who judge this girl - what would they do if they were faced with this situation.
I hope everything goes well for you and your babies...I have a feeling that your babies are going to be attending Berkley and you will defy the expectation and do well as a teen mum.
All the best...I would say good luck...but you don't need that...your already lucky with twins.
2007-03-25 22:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lulu 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about what happened to you Mary - Kate *hugs* i was a teen mum myself and i know how hard it was just with 1 lol I'm so glad you decided to keep the baby's its gonna be really hard work for you but its gonna be worth it good luck to you x
2007-03-25 22:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations honey, I'm glad you are happy and excited about being a mum. I've been a mum for nearly 20 years, my youngest child is 3 years older than you, and I still enjoy it. 13 is very young to start but if you happy, that's what counts I expect. Good luck
2007-03-25 21:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The ladies answer before mines shes sick she could be happy 4 you I kno that I am and sure I would like 2 be your friend because I am going 2 be a teen mother soon I am 14 and I am pregnant everybody that has somthing bad 2 say about you tellem to go to H*E*L*L and take their negative comments with them but sure ill be your friend
2007-03-26 05:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Nae_Nae_1117 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a teen mother , but have children myself.
i no your children wernt conceived in the way you would of liked to but just wonted to say i admire you there isn't alto of girls out there that wouldn't be doing what your are doing . i hope your mother is very proud of you i would be proud to have you as a daughter , enjoy your babies and i wish you all the luck in the future with them .
2007-03-26 06:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you have a good support system at home with your parents so that they can help you with your little ones....I had my first child at 17 and can not imagine how hard it would be at your age....especially times two!!! Be sure to care for your self as well get some counseling to help with the rape issues ect....good luck sweetie.....
2007-03-26 05:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mary-Kate
"hugs"
I'm sorry that had to happen to you but ...i am glad you can see the baby's as a Happy thing and can give them the love and a mom they should have
2007-03-25 21:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋