Whenever we do i feel her going high & we both enjoy it but i dont feel her throb (muscles contracts). I know what u guys will say ... ask ur gf...
I have asked her & she doesnt know what i mean...
I dont know whether she has her orgasms mild.. or she does have one.. or am i doing things wrong.
Has anybody had similar experiences?
2007-03-25 20:48:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You might have to question her a little more... Is she really having one? What do you mean go high? rapid breathing?? There is a sure way to know if she's climaxing.. tell her to let you know when she's about to climax. Place you finger below her vagina but right above her anus. It should pulse this is because her muscle are contracting. Even if it's mild, you should feel a little something. now she may feel great, but it's not an orgasm..It's like climbing a mountain but only going halfway. an orgasm has a climax like when men ejaculate.
2007-03-25 21:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by purplebabboonbutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women have trouble having an orgasm. Buy her a vibrator with external stimulation as well.
I was 30 before my first orgasm. I had thought I had one, but hadn't. Once you learn what they are, then it is easier to have with with your b/f or husband, but the vibrator can teach you and her what she likes.
Make sure you get a good vibrator. Ask for advice when buying it. All my friends wouldn't live without them. A lot of women have no idea what an orgasm is. It is sad. They are missing out. No wonder they don't want sex as often.
2007-03-25 21:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience there is usually a release of fluid (not sure what it is but she gets extremely wet) and her nipples become erect. Also, if she gets more and more enthusiastic and finally subsides that was probably an orgasm. Or, just go down on her and stay down for a while. She will probably orgasm and you will know it.
2007-03-26 02:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of the time you dont feel them.. my bf and I had the same issues and he was worried i wasnt pleasured. Only i know that i was, plus a women can have sex without an orgasm but still be satisfied. You should be able to tell when she has an orgam by her body language, if you arent sure, then yeah, it best to ask her what he is interested in and what style or possition or motions she likes best
2007-03-25 20:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
unless you have a puddle of nector on your belly or on the bed... a true trooper dosnt stop until the job is done!!! you work it out. yes every woman is different, but the first thing you need to do is make her feel comfortable. first you have to relax, take control. pay alot of attention to her g-spot and clitoris, dont jab at it, rub it and kiss at a slow and steady pace. rotate, pin her legs back, turn her over, pull her hair a little bit, smack her ***. god damn boy!!!!do whatever you gotta do, BUT MAKE THAT GIRL C>U>M!! sorry, i felt like i was the drill sargent from full metal jacket there for a minute. nah, but work it out, have fun with it. experiment a little bit, once you get it, it'll be alot easier the next time around.
2007-03-26 01:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by timmy78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there's just gonna be times that you guys won't feel it. It's normal. I've had orgasms where I'm pretty sure he didn't know I did. So no, I don't think you're doing anything wrong.
2007-03-25 21:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my wife goes over the edge and I'm not firmly planted and still stroking, her contractions will squeeze me out. Maybe she is unusually strong or I'm too short but I definitely feel her contract.
2007-03-25 23:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by milittleguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive read and experienced thats all about nipples. Erect nipples = orgasm. Soft nipples = no orgasm.
2007-03-25 22:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Boatman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men dont feel the contractions, its inside of us
2007-03-25 20:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not that into you.
2007-03-25 21:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋