I think one of the new co-worker girls likes me, but she has a boyfriend. We made eye contact, but we didn't smile. Than next day we made eye contact again and she smile at me. I saw her at lunch siting by herself and I talk to her. She brought up that she has a boyfriend and saids he's doing bad in school and stuff. That could of been a sign, that she wanted me to asked her out, but I didn't. We talk about other stuff too. Everytime we walk past by each other she smiles at me. She even tries to go on break when I go on break. But I pretend I don't notice that. The other day she asked me while I was on break, if I work on Friday. So it's obvious she wants me to asked her out, but i'm not going to cause she has a boyfriend. If I was interested in her do I show her? Or let her make the moves? We are in our late teens. I don't want to hear about don't date co-workers and etc... It's not like were both going to work there forever.
2007-03-25 19:54:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I like a man who respects boundaries..not many do. It seems to me that you like her which much make it very hard. If you want things to progress into a possible relationship then you sit down with her at break sometime and talk to her about how you are feeling. Telling her how you feel isnt really stepping over the line because its not like you are acting on it. Tell her that you would like to know what she thinks of you because you are kind of confused about the way she acts. that you wont ask her out if she has a bf..Tell her that you are not asking her to leave her man because you wouldnt ask that of anyone, you just want her think to about what is best for her and what would make her happy. But before you talk to her make sure you want a relationship incase she does end up leaving her man for you..because it wouldnt be right for her leave him if all you wanted out of it was sex..
2007-03-26 03:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ya know.. if she has a boyfriend and she told u then she doesnt like u like that. she may want you to know so u dont ask her out so she wont have to reject u. the smile and eye contact may just be that she wants to be your friend. On the other hand, she may want to break up with her guy but doesnt want to fall when she does, she needs to know that you will be there for her. Anyways. i think maybe u and a few co workers could all go out and see how she acts, go with the flow! maybe try and pull her away from the rest of the group. but dont do anything physical unless she goes for it. you dont wanna make her uncomfortable. good luck
2007-03-26 11:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could always ask her out, and see how things go. Is she exclusive with her boyfriend? Plus you should show her that you are interested. Being a teen is the best time to date around.
2007-03-26 03:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either these are signs she is sending to you she is taken, or she might be trying to flirt with you to make current bf jealous. Either way, best to cool it and be friends first. If this cannot be done, then you might need to avoid her as much as is possible. Scene sounds questionable here--take caution with you in this move.
2007-03-26 05:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mudcat007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until she has broken up with the boyfriend then she is a NO NO NO!
Sorry but thats just the way it is. If she likes you then she will split from her bf to be with you.
2007-03-26 02:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's dude doing something to her or she just not happy with him and she might think your the right guy or wants to give you a try. I think she should talk to her and see how it goes from there
2007-03-26 03:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋