We said some pretty hurtful things to each other and decided that we should not be together any longer. But he always tell me that he doesn't see himself living his life without me. Yet he always talks about how he hurt his x to be with me after 2.5 years we have been together. He was always putting off our wedding date. Now when he want to get married i'm not as willing as I use to be. Whenever we decide to breakup some bad always happen to him. Such as food poisoning, hyperventilating and acting as he is having a nervous breakdown. Once he threatened to cut his wrist and place ketchup around the area for it to look real. I was devasted and dont know what to think. I had really love him and decide to forgive him. That was all in the first year of our relationship. He said to me once that if we did not marry before the new year, we may never get to marry ever again. Now he is dead from the accident and I can't help but to feel as if he ended his life on purpose.
2007-03-25 19:46:30 · 7 answers · asked by L L 3 in Computers & Internet ➔ Other - Computers
You will never know and it sounds like you were in an abusive relationship. Please seriously consider counseling so that you can avoid entering into this type of relationship in the future and are able to heal and move on.
2007-03-25 19:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by starrynights79 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think he loved you a lot but he is kind of weird.
I have a friend that had a man like that followed her.
In the day he would say he loved her and in the night he would come to her house and choke her saying he wanted to kill her and would say he would show how much he loved her by cutting her with a knife. that happened on their 5th year. I think that could have happened to you, Maybe he was taken for a reason don't think too seriously about it. Forget him and live a new life!
2007-03-25 19:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by sweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's how life is. We don't know when we are going, sometimes when we least expect it. That is why we should live to our fullest doing our best everyday, loving each and one anther and according to God's will.
We cannot venture on thoughts that will prevent us from doing the right thing. Just mourn for now, but don't be trapped in your feelings. You'll move on someday.
2007-03-25 19:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by JD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Words are powerful! When he says he doesn't see himself living without you, he's making those statements not just to you, but to the creative universe which absorbs every word. There are no accidents. Everything he was experiencing when he was not with you was subconsciously created by his self through his own words.
So he did end his own life, but it was through ignorance. The universe simply listened to him.
2007-03-25 20:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pallas 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He didn't. I promise you. He didn't do it on purpose. Everything happens for a reason. Believe that. It was just his time to go and he would have went in any circumstance he would have been in. I know this.
2007-03-25 19:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by A... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn, but no it isn't your fault. i felt guilty when my stepdad died of cancer in april of 2000, cause until that day i hated his guts. it's really true that you don't know what you've got till it's gone. i wish i could help you with the grieving process. i got instant messenger, incase you need to vent or talk. if so i'll be there to support you
2007-03-25 19:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by the one and only robertc1985 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so sad...I am so sorry.
2007-03-25 19:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋