im in love with a gal n proposed her but she is saying that it is just fndship.is it fndship.details r added?

Question

on nov 16th,I met a gal in train n i knew her mail id.At that time she told her marriage is fixed.on dec 4th I met her in online n asked her ph no.But she refused to give.after getting visa on dec 7th , on dec 8th she gave me a miss call.So i called n talked 2 hrs with her.she told me that she wanna meet me.i met her on dec12th .After that every day we use talk 1 hr.again I met her on dec 20th.i told jan 3rd is my departure day to usa.on dec 21st,she cried.I asked why?she told that "i think abt jan3rd,im crying becoz u r going to usa on that day".she cried for many times abt my going to usa.on dec 23rd I proposed her.she said "its too late n im in love with my wouldbe".on jan 3rd morning 4.15, she went to upstairs n cried by seeing my flight ,which is going to usa.after reaching usa i called her.she cried very much.i asked why ? she told that "i dont know".i said there must be reason.for that she said " i dont know n im feeling very bad without u".is this fndship r love r game.

she told many things abt her personal life to me.she said that "i accepted the marriage becoz 90% by his behaviour only".i asked why u r not in love.she said "it is not possible in my home.if i luv anyone my parents will die."this whole happened at the time of her exams.when i reached to usa i called her in that she told that she didnt eat for 3 days.her voice was very dull.at time of proposing i asked her that i asked "r u disturbed by me ?" for this she didnt say anything and skipped.i asked many times, then she said" yes u r disturbing me". i said i will marry u.but she is saying that it is fndship n im in deeply loving my wouldbe.i asked if u r in deep love with ur wouldbe then why u cried for me.there is no answer with her.im not getting her. even she didnt tell me the new yr wishes when i called on jan 1st n remembered 3 times that day is new yr.for this she said "i forgotten".is it possible in fndship forgotting.whether she really fndship with me r she loved me r its a game.

that person who is going to marry her is working as a software engineer in singaporr from 3 yrs b her she is rich family gal.

Answer 1

Sounds like she is either very,very confused or her life is very,very complicated. I feel sorry for you both, this is very confusing for you & her both, I'm sure. Pray for guidance, is all I know to tell you.

Answer 2

Seems to me like she is playing the oldest trick in the book so that she too can possibly come to usa....you said she only called you after you got your visa....unless you are just coming as a student, when you go back you will know, otherwise, go on with your life, she is just a friend looking for a good possibility. Good Luck and I hope you find happiness, if she loved you, she would have said yes to the proposal of marriage.

Answer 3

Sounds like game.