I gotta question for you all.. recently, my girl has been trying to get help from a guy I don't like or trust, to get a job in the company. She has been hiding text messages, calls, and emails. She needs him to come pick up an application, and I asked if I could be there, and she said, "no, because you will start something.." Even though I told her I wouldn't. She defends him a lot recently, even though they used to not like each other. She says, "I am not going to talk bad about someone who is helping me.."
I confronted both of them and both denied anything, even getting very angry about it.
So I grabbed her cell phone and noticed he sent a text saying, "He's so paranoid! LOL!" So I, acted like her, and said, "are we getting together?" And he said.. "Whatcha mean? Didn't I tell you I had a girlfriend from MySpace... lol" Though she said he told her he was single.
Confused, what to think?
2007-03-25 18:28:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She messin with your head. So mess with hers two can play that game. No seriously you two should sit down and talk alot of people forget they can do this. Communication its great.
2007-03-25 18:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's hard to say if she's cheating. However, you can't give him this kind of attention. All you're doing is allowing him to make you look bad in front of your girl. Plus, if everything is fine, then her behavior makes sense.
You should sit down with your girl and apologize. If you explain your feelings, she'll probably understand. This will also give you an opportunity to attempt to charm her back to your side. Point out that the whole situation is driving you nuts, and hopefully she'll understand and be accommodating.
However, if after some more time she hasn't gotten a job, is still being secretive, and is spending more time with this man, then I would recommend hiring a private investigator to follow her. Some people might not approve, but at least you'll have an answer. That's better than sitting around worrying if she is or isn't having an affair.
2007-03-26 02:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by stedh1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very confusing ill say!!!! But I always say where there is smoke there is always fire. From personal experience I do know that if you ask a question of someone and it is as important as this...if they return an answer with anger then are usually guilty, and if they can't respect your feelings whether there put on the spot or not then she doesnt deserve you and one more thing before i go, If you did see text messages where they were talking about you and I saw what you wrote and it was disrespectful dude. Id kick that dudes *** seriously man I think that is completely cheating texting talking and if they havent yet and i say yet they will...Angel...oh good luck
2007-03-26 01:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure seems like it but hold off for a moment, maybe she is just getting help like she said. Has she ever cheated before? If you cant trust her, maybe it is time to move on to someone you can trust.
2007-03-26 01:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they're cheating now (you're comment "Didn't I tell you...girlfriend...). It means that he's got a g/f and she's got you. But it does appear that both are keeping their options open should things not work out with their respective partners.
2007-03-26 01:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is cheating..
2007-03-26 01:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋