people say im rude and mean? what should i do?

Question

its because i don't smile and i don't like to cause obviously i hate my smile and plus i would look like a retard smiling at people i don't even know but im real nice to my friends, but im kinda snobby and wont talk to anyone other then my friends and usually if somebody smiles at me i never smile back unless i force myself to, what should i do?
plus i look hotter without smiling

i know i am very beautiful person and lots of people have told me also but they say nobody will go out with me unless i be down to earth and i am really down to earth i just dont like to smile and show my ugly smile

Answer 1

Whoa...

Just smile.

Answer 2

First of all, I admire your self-confidence. People do not expect you to smile all the time. If you insult people or if you try to hurt them then you obviously are a mean person and you should change. Talking to others gives you a new perspective on things and if you do that then maybe you will learn to see yourself through the eyes of others. If you don't know how to smile, then I guess it's not your fault...maybe you never learned to. Smiling makes people happy whether it's a beutiful smile or not. Something about not talking to anyone other than your friends: Don't ever think you are superior to others and you shouldn't speak to them. Get a personality test or something and see if you're rude!

Good Luck with your friends

Answer 3

There's never going to be a happy answer to this, from one who knows. My smile looks fine but I just don't do it much. Not everyone goes around with a mindless cheshire-cat grin all the time. Those who say you should just smile are those who have no idea that there's any reason not to, they don't get around much and they don't like having to think about it.

Fact is, people are more at ease if you smile... generally. But I personally find it extremely creepy when people fake it. And anyone who never seems to stop smiling I avoid very carefully.

I applaud you for being yourself... but I warn you, you will always run into opposition from those who think happiness must show on your face and that feeling good means never thinking.

Answer 4

You will alot more appealing as a person if you learn to smile, you might think you look hotter without a smile, but no decent guy wants to be seen with a girl that goes around without ever smiling and being friendly, If there is a reason such as your teeth that prevent you from smiling, go to a dentist. Believe me, people love a smile from a stranger now and again, especially if they are feeling down.

Answer 5

I suggest you get help from a dentist for your dislike of your smile. If it is correctable, then go for it. If not, learn to deal with the way you look, accept yourself and don't be so hard on yourself. You know it cost nothing to smile at someone and there are many people who need to see a friendly smile. They aren't judging your smile. You need to get over your insecurity about your smile. None of us are perfect. Love yourself and all the things that you cannot change.

Answer 6

Well first stop acting snobbish. You can't look that bad while smiling.
Just loosen up a little bit and stop worrying about what people think of you.

Answer 7

people say the same to me, just becuase i dont smile does not mean that i am not OK. next time someone says "smile" to you, tell them, i was smiling til you came around! just kiddin that would be mean, just say it to yourself.

Answer 8

dont change that is just part of your personality and if they dont like it they can just look away enjoy life and ignore all unnecessary comments

Answer 9

Ignore them and tell them to F off.