what are ways you would ask someone out and let them know your interested in them?

Answer 1

Ask them out on paper ... or a paper napkin
If you're out at a bar and notice a cute person standing there, put the cocktail napkins to good use. Remember those grade school "Do you like me?" notes you used to pass around? Do something similar. Grab a pen, write down, "Would you like to go out next week?" with a "Yes" box and a "No" box beneath it. Fold up the napkin note and pass it to your intended with the pen.


Pull your own "To Be Continued ..." episode
The less you know the person you're asking out, the better off you are with this technique. While no one is saying to ask out a total stranger of course (for safety’s sake), this is a good approach if you're attracted to a friend of a friend when, say, you're all out at a bar or party. Start a story, then stop partway through saying, "Oh, this is a two-part episode. To hear the other half, you'll have to tune into a date with me." Why do I know this works? Because a guy I met in a bar used something similar on me a few months ago. We'd been talking about traveling adventures we'd had, and he said, "I have two funny stories about that." After finishing his first story, he said, "As for the second story ... well, I'll tell you when we go out for dinner." We've been out for four dinners since!


Hire a stand-in to do the asking
If you're feeling too chicken to approach the gorgeous stranger across the room, have a friend -- or the party host, or the bartender at your favorite hangout -- do it for you. Ask them to say to your would-be date, "My friend over there wants to know if you'll go out with him/her." Then be sure they pour on the charm for you with glowing lines, like, "She's a great woman, and you'd be a fool not to go out with her." Or "I mean, he's a cool dude -- check out his shoes." Once you have the object of your affections smiling, then you can move in for the answer personally.


Evite someone for a one-on-one
If you already have the email address of the person you want to ask out, let an Internet invite do the talking. Go to Evite.com and arrange a small party ... so small that the only invitees are you and your date. In the reply box, you, of course, should write something funny like, "Heck yeah, I'll be there! Count me in!"


Sneak it onto their to-do list
If someone you know (and like) hasn't gotten around to asking you out -- and if you're the bold type -- insert it into their schedule. Yvi Chen, 30, penned this approach not too long ago. She was at a friend's house (a single, handsome friend's house) and wrote in his calendar, "Call Yvi to remind her about having dinner next week." On the next page, a week later, she scheduled in, "Dinner with Yvi." Yes, it was cheeky, but she felt she had nothing to lose. "I knew he'd either call to comment on what I wrote in his calendar, or he'd just pretend he never saw it," says Yvi. "I was fine either way. I just didn't want to be rejected face-to-face." As if. In the end, Yvi got the "remind," and they dined!



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Start your own rumor
If there's someone you've been flirting with for a few weeks or years, and you can't figure out a way to break the "friend" boundary, here's a plan that can work brilliantly. Tell the person you have your eye on, "So the rumor is, you want to ask me out ..." If the person really does want to ask you out, you've just handed them a safety net for rejection. And if they hadn’t thought of asking you out, they might be intrigued enough by the "rumor" to look at you in a new light. If they say, "Who started that rumor?" Say, "I can't reveal my sources." Or "I can't tell you who, but it was someone very smart." My friend Lisa tried this with a guy she'd been flirty friends with in college who'd never made a move. Though he was flustered for a minute, she finally said, "Look, are you going to ask me out or not?" He said, "Uh ... yes." She then said "yes" to a date that night. And five years later, she said "yes" to his marriage proposal.


Make a wager
The next time you want to ask out a stranger you meet at a bar or party, up your chances of getting a yes by upping the fun ante. Say to him or her, "I'll play you in a game of pool. If I win, you take me out. And if you win, I'll let you take me out." Let the game begin!


Be specific and straight-up
Whether you want to ask out a stranger, a friend or someone you've struck up a conversation with at a party, go bold. Replace a wishy-washy line like, "So yeah, we should hang out or something soon, you know?" with a far more straightforward, "Would you like to get sushi with me next Thursday night?" No mixed messages, no fumbling for words, and oozing with confidence ... and that's something every date askee wants to hear.

Answer 2

It has been interesting and with those recent clones, it makes things rather tough.... It is indeed good to have people asking interesting questions but of course we have some people out there who are just curious and really need help. Just bear with it...............

Answer 3

Walk up to them, confidently but not arrogantly, and in a pleasant tone of voice, ask, "I don't even have a chance, do I?" Either they'll agree and you get it out of the way early, or they laugh and you're in.

Answer 4

Put it in a love letter post it in the newspaper plaster your house with her pictures, and call her on the telephone and ask her out on a date.

Answer 5

when i like a girl, i start off by sitting next to them casually, and make small talk. Progress with the conversation and make casual jokes of dating possiblities, it works. trust me,

Answer 6

My way to do anything serious is in a jokingly manner. why cuz it takes pressure off., and i'm just sorta silly sometimes. so if your interested you say, hey i wanna see this movie........when are you going to take me lol....... Or if you just wanna let him know ure interested you seductively touch em when ure talking to him. seductively/or flirtingly i dunno! but make a subtle move

Answer 7

Will you join me for dinner?
Can I take you to a movie?
How about lunch sometime?

Answer 8

put it on a billboard. hey it is how i proposed to my wife tonja.