I'm a 19 year old girl and i conseders my self straight but i dont feel as straight as the straight women that i know . Its like I always checks out women , i even checks out more women then men. I has sexual dreams of women almost every night. every time i masterbates i all ways thinks of women. i think of the idea of a women every day . I looked at a women at the bar differenally then i normaly look at women and i got 3 tingels around her,but i only crushes on guys. Is it weird that i dont feel as straight as the staight women i know?
2007-03-25 18:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There are 2 possibilities regarding to your peculiar behaviour when seeing women out there. Firstly, you are just curious, which mean you do not really like women but you just curious or want to know more about the feeling to be with them. It can be caused of your hormones in your body as you are a normal person that is having natural growth. But this kind of situation is very rare in a woman. Secondly, you are blur with your own identity. You are blurred by your feeling towards women but at the same time you only crush on guys. You need to explore more about yourself to know about your sex identity whether you are straight or bisexual. Well if the condition is continuous on women only and finally you found that yourself dislike guys anymore, you are transforming into a lesbian. This situation only happens when your mind is only focus to women and no more for guys. And just o remind you that, if might not know about your are lesbian or not because u never had sex with a woman. Once you have came through an experience being disturb by a woman, i think only then you can discover whether you like to be disturb by them or not. Try to find out this, about your feeling that you pro or contra more whenever guys or gals disturb you. Well, what is happening to you is not weird. It is just a matter of exploring yourself. Unless you are anti-gay, lesbian or bi. In your age, there are many things can happen and that is what known as growth and changing. Take it positively and think wisely of each step you are goin to take. Your opinion, your selection, your way, your choice are what going to shape your personality or the outcome. Think twice and you won't regret of the final result. Good luck and take care!
2007-03-25 19:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by Chris D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be bisexual and if so you are lucky because you can enjoy the best of both worlds and you have a lot more chance than straight people of finding your soul mate because there are many more possibilities. Of course there is only one way to find out and that is to get urself a girlfriend and try it. you might like it. However, just because you find another woman attractive doesnt necessarily mean you are gay or bi, it may just mean you are appreciating the beauty of another human being, which is a great quality to have. If only everyone could appreciate the beauty or potential beauty in the human race.
2007-03-25 18:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong for you to feel this way, when i first discovered i was a lesbian i used to check out women all the time. and when i masterbated i would not be satifatised untill i thought about a women so yea you are gay so go find a girlfriend
2007-03-30 15:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by sexycassie15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what going with you.You see a pretty female and you wish you look like her.It don't mean you are attractive to her.Are her breast might be tight and your are sagging.Are she might have a bigger butt then you.Meaning you might not have all the quafaction that the other women has.And it lower your self esteem.So when you go to bed a night you have that women on your mind.Doctors say half on straight women think of other women.So I don't think you like women but you want to look like them.
2007-03-31 07:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by La Tania W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is go with the flow with your sexuality. Stop trying to give it a name or definition. You feel what you feel. You make the decisions you make. As long as you are comfortable with what you are doing then just carry right on, even if it doesn't seem to fit the general description!
2007-03-25 19:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, what are the schools turning out? You have bigger problems than your attraction to women. 19 years old and cannot write or spell. How sad.
2007-04-01 09:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mike G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Labels are overrated. I think you should be able to be with whomever you want to be with-- whether the person happens to be a man, woman, androgyne, sexless, etc- without worrying about whether or not it makes you a certain way.
2007-03-25 19:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*no honey it doesn't your just going through a huge phase right now where you are looking for if you want a woman date a woman if you want a man date a man then if you can't choose just be bisexual got go baby smootches.*
2007-04-01 02:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by shame on them 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just tht your more well rounded than other women.
2007-03-30 15:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by kissaled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not striaght, u cant be. coz a striaght girl will never do or feel the way u do.
2007-03-25 18:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋