i feel like i am unnattractive and i want a boyfriend but i always think that they are to good looking for me!

Question

What should i do? And i am gay!!!

Answer 1

You should just chill out and be yourself. Your thinking to much about the situation, you'll find a b/f soon your not even unattracted.

Answer 2

From your photo you seem like a really attractive guy! (But don't get me wrong -- you're only 17! I don't want Chris Hansen busting down my door.)

You should find some gay groups in your area with people your age. It can be a nice place to meet guys, but also a good place to find cool people that know what you're going through. If there aren't any, then I'm sure you'll have better luck finding groups in college.

I also want to add: this is how I feel a lot of the time. But just wait, you've got a lot of your life ahead, and dating isn't everything in life. That's what I tell myself.

Answer 3

I feel for ya, bcoz the "gay" world is so caught up in facades, i guess that's how the lifestyle ought to be perceived. Everyone is so into looks, regularly i find guys who just want to screw and there is nothing beneath their skin and appetite. I think you should consider yourself worthy of all else other than those who would appreciate you solely on how you look. At times i tire of guyz saying gosh he's slim and good-looking, they tend to forget your brain and heart. be grateful dude, in the end if you do find someone honest and genuine, you've got you a winner. don't sweat, all good things come to thoz who wait:)

Answer 4

Well, first of all, you're waay cute and second, there will always be better looking guys. It's about the person, not how your looks match together. He's not an outfit for you and you're not one for him either. Once you find that someone, I'm sure that you will be comfortable no matter what. as always, gl =)

Answer 5

Quit feeling so negative about your looks. Love yourself first before you expect others to love you.

Why not go to some online dating websites...find a match and propose a date...

There are many online dating sites for Gay/Bi men and women.

Answer 6

try to stop putting yourself down, and stop being yourown ene
my. even though you dont see much good about yourself, doe
s not mean that quality things about you is not there? you are
as good as you want yourself to be, and dont you allow anybo
dy to take your qualities from you. you may be better off witho
ut a so called boy friend. most men only want what they can g
et from you, and soon after, they will be gone.

Answer 7

Everyone's attractive to someone. It's not up to you to decide you're not good looking enough for someone. If you like them, go for it, and let them decide.

Word of advice: don't spread the negativity on too thick around someone you like. Major turn off.

Answer 8

so your gay, and wanna boy friend & worry they're too good look and sexy for you hm....let me see....here..

you might have a problem your head chemical is in state of inbalance.
you need to work around by reject the chemical inbalance in your head and use your guts instead.

soon you start using gut instead of chemical in your head, you'll see a clear picture....you're sexy and attractive to everyone and with gut increase your chance of getting a boy friend pretty good.

Thanks me when it work out for you....& fyi: I am not gay ok

Answer 9

you should never feel like that. everyone is beautiful in their own way ( i know some people think its bull****). you'll never know until you try, even if he reject you solely based on you look then he doesn't deserve you. never put yourself down. if you feel unattractive, then go for a make over or something. even with small changes it does, surely you will feel better.

Answer 10

There are two different issues here. First, you may be unattractive (or not) so you may be too good looking for you. Try dating someone ugly and stupid, my wife did and it worked great for me.
Second, you may or may not be gay. So what.