A special friend of mine has lost one of his good friends and I wanted to give him something to show my sympathy and let him know that I am here for him. What can I do?
2007-03-25 17:56:41 · 9 answers · asked by lizjames 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go to him and give him a big hug. Then just give him your shoulder to cry on. Be there for him and listen, don't do too much talking.
2007-03-25 18:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kinda a tuffy since everyone handles grief differently. I really would just suggest a card or a phone call to let him know you are there if he needs anything. As someone who has lost a few close friends, nothing helps. I just wanted to be left alone to deal. This is about making him feel better, which you really cant. This isnt about satisfying yourself by giving/doing something . Im not tryng to be mean by saying that, Im just trying to emphasize that his feelings are first and foremost right now.
2007-03-26 01:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the perfect card to express you sympathy and take it to him and let him know that you will be there for him if he needs you. He lucky to have a friend like you.
2007-03-26 01:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all kinds of movies i saw,just dont say or show your sorry or sympathy...
trust me that unfortunate person dont want or like to accepts any sympathy..
Just try to make him happy back by
saying comfort words like happy or not
times will pass day by day.Concentrate
on jogging,reading or listens to musics
to forget about it.should go for movies too.try to advice when timing is right only..
2007-03-26 01:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by Soon Huat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A shoulder to cry on and a hug will work wonders for him! Plus, show him that you care! Look him in the eyes and tell him that you are sorry and u will be with him untill the end (I am not referring as a boyfriend/girlfriend kind of conversation) and he'll make it through it! That will make him feel supporeted and he will be able to move on alot easier! but, most of it, is up to him
2007-03-26 01:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to give him anything but your friendship, be there for him. let him know if he needs to talk, or a shoulder to cry on, that you are there for him.
2007-03-26 01:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by rn4life_2003 s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to give him anything materialistic. Simply comfort him and let him know that your there for him!
2007-03-26 01:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by invisiblekisses2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to give him anything just let him know your gonna be there for them when they need you in da good && bad times. ...you will always be there for them to talk to you about anythang and trust dat u wouldnt tell any1....sutff lyke dat you know...trust me it really means alot to ppl...=)
2007-03-26 01:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a hug. sometimes just knowing someone is there beside you is enough.
2007-03-26 01:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah Jones101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋