Iam a 19 year old girl and my question is if some one is sexual and emotionally attracted to the opposite sex but is sexual attracted to the same sex then could they day one day be emotionally and sexually attracted to the same sex instead of just sexually?
2007-03-25 17:23:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
very much so possible happened to me
2007-03-25 17:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really can't have a solid relationship unless you have a little of both. If right now you are only sexually attracted to the same sex, then you need to find out if you can also be emotionally connected as well. You may have to experiment some. Try dating someone of the same sex you are sexually attracted to.
I would suggest trying to find out if you would rather stay with the same sex before you get into a committed relationship with the opposite sex. You would hate to end a relationship later that you were emotionally connected to if you have too much craving for the sexual needs of the same sex.
Emotional connections are harder to break off. So experiment with the sexual first while you are still young. Plus sometimes the emotional connections come after the sexual.
Good luck
2007-03-26 00:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Rumin 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. All of the above are possible. There are many women as well as men who are attracted to the same sex, both sexually and emotionally. It may seem strange, but it is also quite possible for three or four people to have meaningful relationships with each other. Religious restrictions tend to keep this information under a tight lid, but it can and does occur. It's a part of Life, and can be called 'natural' in a pragmatic way.
2007-03-26 00:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's completely possible. Most of all though, being attracted to the opposite sex should not be labeled as any one thing or another. You are sexually attracted to another PERSON, or emotionally attracted. I don't believe that any of your preferences have anything to do with a certain type of sexuality. Don't label, it makes life much easier
2007-03-26 00:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's all about finding the right person. If you can be sexually attracted to someone then you can be attracted on an emotional level as well, if both of you have compatible personality types.
2007-03-26 00:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally think it's not always a factor to attraction what ones sexual orientation is. If I find your inner beauty & personality attractive, whether your male or female, it'a just what I find attractive. Not everything needs a label does it? Just love honestly & truthfully and it's all good!
2007-03-26 00:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're young and your emotions are still being explored. There's no harm either way so long as you or others are not harmed in the process.
2007-03-31 02:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone can answer that question for you. I mean anything is possible...but realistically there is no way to know except to just find out for yourself.
Best of luck to you.
2007-03-26 00:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by Corestar 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its possible. And probable. Only the one affected would know
2007-03-26 00:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea i believe so just remember that anything can happen and when it does just take it and run with it and dont try to stop it
2007-03-26 00:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by lookinhard 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋