Men tell me that I'm intimidating during sex. Should I just lay there? It's over so fast, I can't even enjoy it. Any advice?
2007-03-25 17:14:07 · 8 answers · asked by jonahsmom 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Peter H, I like your advice, but two seconds of oral and it's over.
2007-03-25 17:24:06 · update #1
Your intimidating when its over that fast?? Wow, you must be incredible. Personally, I don't like a girl who just lays there, but, the more into it she is, the quicker I want to finish. My advice is to keep being intimidating, and tell the guy (even forcefully if necessary, it could be more fun) slow down, or make him stop altogether. You can really intimidate him, and tell him to go from being inside you to oral, so he doesn't end too fast, and can get a break, so the sensation goes down some
2007-03-25 17:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Peter H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How exactly are you intimidating? Are you aggressive? Maybe you do need to be more passive -- not necessarily just lay there, but try and put the brakes on your passion a little bit so things will last longer. Maybe you and your partner need more foreplay, or delay making love a little longer. When you move into it too fast, it's over before it's begun. Most young men reach climax very fast, so the slower you go, the better. Or get rid of the "quickie" and then try again after a short time, and the second time around might last longer. Ah, youth! It is wasted on the young, as they say. Older guys take longer and are usually better lovers -- one advantage to becoming more mature. Hope this gives you a little inspiration. Good luck!
2007-03-25 17:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you anticipating the let down and projecting it before or during sex? Is the doubt already written on your face?
Control their movement if you don't want to be finished before being satisfied.
Put a pillow under your butt and make him aim up to hit your G-spot.
http://www.herbal-sexaphrodisiac-libidus.com/
2007-03-25 17:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by artistontheedge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a more understanding, mature lover.
Those guys sound inexperienced.
2007-03-25 17:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a real man and quit playing with boys!
2007-03-25 17:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stroke their ego by telling them what you want done instead of taking over, which i'm guessing is what you're doing....
2007-03-25 17:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Steenskees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an older guy :-)
2007-03-25 17:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
emo!
2007-03-25 19:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋