Why can't we just be happy for someone. Alot of times at work a pretty girl will come in and act snobby to me or others. I feel like saying yeah, you're pretty and I'm happy for you. Why do we judge each other so much when we don't know what that other person has seen or been through in their lives? Anyone can put on a nice suit a look like a million bucks, but would they be the same person without a dime?
2007-03-25 17:14:03 · 7 answers · asked by SW 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Stop caring about superficial crap and just enjoy who you are.
2007-03-25 17:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's important to all of us to be liked and/or loved and the world just doesn't work that way, unforutnately or fortunately for us, depending how you look at it. There are going to be people out there who will like or l love us and we'd rather they didn't, because we don't care for them. And there will always be people who don't like us, even though they don't know anything about us. When this happens, it's better to feel that it is their loss, otherwise, we would be hurt all the time. When I started looking at things this way, I stopped being so hurt all the time. It IS their loss.
2007-03-25 17:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Barbie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure they would but they would just show it differently like gossip or talking down about others. woman or people who are stuck up think they have it all but this is just a front.if you have to portray that you have it all mean you are still looking for attention and inturn means your insecure and always trying to be wanted or needed. theres nothing more attractive than being truely happy and kind.and feeling sexy without having to scream it to the world
2007-03-25 17:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by solas lethe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people that try to impress people by their looks/knowledge or intimidate others are not worth a broke dime anyway.We are real people in a real world,I know what you're saying.No one is better than anyone else for any reason.So why act like it.You're a much better person for not trying to be like them.I'm glad they're are people like us in this world left.
2007-03-25 17:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by mygrandparentsrthebestintheworld 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep....it all goes back to security. An insecure person most always is rude and/or spiteful. It's sad...but true. They never feel they are "enough" so they try to cut everybody else down to make their self feel better.
2007-03-25 18:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by Godsent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jealousy.
2007-03-25 17:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by MichiganRocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are all desperately insecure.
2007-03-25 17:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by wassupmang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋