and you bleed is it embarrising?
2007-03-25 17:04:53 · 9 answers · asked by Crazy_Wanderer 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
As long as your partner knows it is your first time, there should be no embarrassment about bleeding, if you do bleed at all. It is expected.
2007-03-25 17:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by aqx99 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many women actually don't bleed the first time they have sex because their hymens have torn from some other activities, such as sports or putting in a tampon. However, some people I know report that they did bleed. They were not embarrassed by it, because they had told their partners beforehand that they were virgins and they might bleed. It was not a lot of blood.
2007-03-26 00:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by thereligiousrightisneither 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is hymen
The hymen is part of the reproductive system of a woman. It is a tissue that either completely or partially obstructs the opening of the vagina. It is named after the Greek god Hymenaeus - the God of weddings and marriage. It is also referred as the maidenhead.
Function of hymen
The hymen is found as a perforated or septate membranous ring around the vaginal opening or may be found blocking the opening. The hymen basically has no anatomical function in the human body. However, there is an age-old tradition that the intact hymen is proof of virginity in the woman. However, modern science now knows that this is an erroneous fact
Hymen defloration
The reason the hymen was considered a guarantee of the real virginity of a woman was that it was thought that it was the first hymen defloration that would cause this membrane to tear and thus bleed. However, it is known that this is not true as the normal hymen does not actually completely cover the vaginal opening and thus has an opening in it. Moreover, the bleeding that is associated with hymen defloration may be from not only tearing of the hymen, but also because of injury to nearby tissues. Many teen's heymen defloration happened before first intercourse
What is hymen
The hymen is part of the reproductive system of a woman. It is a tissue that either completely or partially obstructs the opening of the vagina. It is named after the Greek god Hymenaeus - the God of weddings and marriage. It is also referred as the maidenhead.
Function of hymen
The hymen is found as a perforated or septate membranous ring around the vaginal opening or may be found blocking the opening. The hymen basically has no anatomical function in the human body. However, there is an age-old tradition that the intact hymen is proof of virginity in the woman. However, modern science now knows that this is an erroneous fact
Hymen defloration
The reason the hymen was considered a guarantee of the real virginity of a woman was that it was thought that it was the first hymen defloration that would cause this membrane to tear and thus bleed. However, it is known that this is not true as the normal hymen does not actually completely cover the vaginal opening and thus has an opening in it. Moreover, the bleeding that is associated with hymen defloration may be from not only tearing of the hymen, but also because of injury to nearby tissues. Many teen's heymen defloration happened before first intercourse
The tearing of the hymen is medically called a transection that is basically caused by trauma associated with penetration. The insertion of a tampon and masturbation are not strong enough to cause trauma to the hymen. Transections are not caused by straddle injuries, horseback riding, gymnastics or bicycling as they do not penetrate the hymen. Today, you can find many surgeons who can restore a woman�s hymen surgically for those women who consider the hymen being intact an indicator of a woman�s hymen is not deflorated. Women who are to be married, and wish to have met the expectations of their culture usually
2007-03-26 00:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by twocrafty65 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most women don't bleed and most hymens have broken before having intercourse, those stories just aren't really "newsworthy"... that's why you only hear about the pain and the blood... and since thats what you hear about so much you think its the norm, but it actually isn't
2007-03-26 00:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by brian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may or may not experience some pain. You may or may not bleed. Every woman is different. Don't be embarassed by it.
Just be sure to use protection. Use a condom!!
2007-03-26 00:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is an *** then yea-make sure u love the person your giving it up to. Or wait till your older-u regret not saving yourself for that special someone
2007-03-26 00:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. J 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I didn't bleed my first time..
2007-03-26 00:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no the guy your wit should expect there might some blood ,since its ur first time , if he gets upset about it then he's an asshole
2007-03-26 00:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know. I didn't bleed.
2007-03-26 00:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋