Like, Whenever I Ask Or Say Something to My "Friends" they never completely hear me out or ignore me. It brings me to the point that I can't trust anybody. What do you think I Should do? I'm 16 and I Live With My Aunt. I Lean more towards an introvert, unless its with someone I know very well. It's Frusturating to think that some people you know truly ignore you for no appearent reason.
So My Questions are:
How Come Some People Don't Have True Friends?
Why would someone you trust ignore you or not listen to you for no appearent reason?
Please Be Serious to A Point.
2007-03-25 16:53:17 · 6 answers · asked by FWAY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have a similar problem, so I asked my counselor.
She told me (at least for me personally) that I never learned how to be a good friend, spot a good friend, or maintain friendships, so part of my problem at least is not knowing who is a good candidate for friends.
I think this is the case because the best friend I've ever had is my husband, and he is someone I initially thought was "too dorky" for me.
She told me that learning how to have friends is something you learn from your family, and mine is a little dysfunctional. She told me to learn about being a good friend from his family by seeing how they treat each other.
2007-03-25 17:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by poopster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes i say "i wish i had a friend like me." Be your own friend love yourself. True friends are few. They do not care about u more about themselves u are letting them use u. Because no one can use u unless u let them. Especial woman to many hanging out with them problem. Being with yourself and having discernment about who is who. They ignore you because the do not really care about your problems, issues, etc. Just watch and do not say anything and look at them--see for yourself. 16 yrs old someone will come alone and impress your friendship truly. To be a friend you must first show yourself friendly. Try to distance yourself and find out what happens.
2007-03-25 17:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be sure who you choose as your friends. Then sometimes you have to be the same way with the ppl who act like that towards you or you're going to be feeling...[[idk i'd feel stupid]].
some ppl dont have true friends b/c thy're not always true themselves or they dont knwo how to pick them.
maybe the person you trust doesnt care and you need to find someone that does or maybe they have thier own problems
2007-03-25 17:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might be so wrapped up in themselves that they don't know you exist. Are they hanging out with you to be noticed?Try finding new friends. Don't give up on the old ones, just find some that are really interested in you.
2007-03-25 17:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your saying, and those people are not your friends, its a two way street with friendship and they should be there for you, some people just don't care. Try to hang out with people who don't get you so upset.
2007-03-25 17:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by stargirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like these people are not are your friends A true friend listens and gives advice.
2007-03-25 16:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋