So this will sound cliche but I just can't figure out women. Theres this girl I really like, and she seems to really like me, but instead she prefers to play guys and make out with this guy who never plans on asking her out. Dating or having a relationship with her in any way. Yes I know this for a fact, he told me in a VERY personal conversation and if you knew the guy you'd understand why he in all sence of the word is a man hore. I don't mean to sound highly of myself because I dont think highly of myself I think of myself as being very average. But I have alot more to offer her than a guy who just wants to make out and play around with her. Shes an amazing girl and has so much going for her that she just can't seem to see. She's funny smart beautiful just an all around amazing person. But she still prefers just playing around with some random guy than getting into any sort of relationship. I feel bad for her knowing that I can never be with her and someone who doesnt care about her
2007-03-25 16:45:05 · 4 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I’m not endorsing everything on this site, some of the tactics presented are evil. Some are superstitious. Some however are basically articles on how the human mind, particularly the female mind in America, views dating and courtship. Most of the material has to do with mutual respect, some of it actively promotes trying to break her, so think carefully about what you want to use. But, all and all there is a lot of good advice on how to build your confidence with women and show them you are what they are looking for. And why you have been failing to date. Keep in mind though, she just may not be into you, and there may not ever be anything you can do about it, no matter how much you torture yourself.
Good hunting
2007-03-25 17:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"she seems to really like me".....you should be SURE that she really likes you...yes, she might be sweet ,beautiful, funny, and an amazing person...but what is the use of all your concerns if she doesn't feel that!!!....i'm not suggesting that you stop thinking about her...but make your move,show her that you care for her, TELL her that she's with the wrong guy...because if she goes on with her relationship with that guy, i don't think she's as good as you described her...
2007-03-26 01:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by misk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are a lot more like men then they would have us believe;
A lot want;
-excitement
-experiences
-variety
-and just plain fun without strings
And a lot are also;
-afraid of committment
Sounds like she's just not playing the same game you are or with the same values. She may figure it out one day. If you like her, either play her game or move on so you don't waste anymore time and energy on her. Then she may even get a clue!
Peace,
David :)
2007-03-26 00:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by David M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so she doesn't like u, get over it, there is nothing wrong with another guy or with this girl. u re just not her type, chemistry isn't there, whatever. and this is her life - she wants a player she gets a player. what u have to do with all of it? well, except u might also become a player, if u have enough brains of course
2007-03-26 01:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋