sad to say... but in movies when a woman gets raped by a man... it sorta turns me on. Also with rough sex. so basically, rape sorta turns me on.
2007-03-25 16:15:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Rape fantasies are very common.
2007-03-25 16:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by robot_hooker 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Is it the actual rape, or is it the lack of control you have over the situation? I think we all have some reservations when it comes to sex, the whole rape thing, is somewhat an extension of the mystery man, and the whole being out of control thing. That is sexy. What isn't, is being beaten to within an inch of your life, not knowing if you are going to live through the next 10 minutes. With the fantasy, you know you are going to live, even if you try to trick your mind at the time, to get the "fear factor" going. You might look into a little therapy, just to make sure there wasn't any sexual abuse in your childhood. If there was then just deal with it, if not, then the fantasy is probably the real deal, not the actual raping.
2007-03-25 23:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by cunhvn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's normal. As others have said the "rape" fantasy is the most common among women. In our society women are damned if you do (your a slut/whore) and damned if you don't (your a tease/prude/frigid). Our society also basis most of it's sexual judgments upon religions...one in particular that says not only that sex is "wrong", but women are the epitome of wickedness. Controlling women...better yet making them conform to an abnormal set of moral rules set down by men has resulted in these fantasies. It is a way to have the sex that we as biological creatures crave...without being responsible for it. Women are also expected to be in control of themselves all the time, where men are not. We must work, keep the house clean, take care of the kids, cook dinner and don't forget to pick up the dry cleaning. We must be "pure" and dedicated to our families. Men do not have such high expectations placed upon them. The rape fantasy is again a way of letting go of control and being able to be 'naughty' without being labled as 'kinky' or weird.
Hopefully our society will evolve past ancient sexual taboos and we can all have more open and fulfilling sexual encounters.
2007-03-26 01:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Medusa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a common fantasy for women. Many who have answered don't actually understand... having experienced both, I can say for fact that the rape fantasy is not even close to the same thing as an actual assault. This does not mean that you want to be raped or attacked.
You are normal and beautiful. Don't worry about it.
Peace & Love.
2007-03-25 23:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
It isn't weird or gross. More women probably also get turned on by this but aren't willing to admit it. There are lot's of true stories about men and women role playing rape scene scenarios.
2007-03-25 23:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by ctjones 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
The most common fantasy for women is the rape fantasy, believe it or not. Most psychologists agree that it doesn't mean a woman actually wants to be raped but a rape fantasy puts a woman in a position where she can be guilt-free sexually, and enjoy deviant sexually. I know that all sounds kinky but it's actually pretty mundane: it lets women be sexual without being slutty. Most of us have a million and 1 fantasies that we never really want fulfilled, this is one of them.
2007-03-25 23:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by Cybele 1 · 7⤊ 1⤋
No, actually, I think it's pretty common for 12-17 year old boys to get off on what you describe.
If you really ARE a FEMALE with rape fantasies, I'd suggest that you go to a Battered Women's shelter or Rape Crisis Center and meet real rape victims.
You'd be especially intrigued to see the females with their heads split open, bruised faces, and dead eyes.
Rape victims are also from 2 months old to 90 years old.
It's NOTHING like the movies, believe me.
Good luck
2007-03-25 23:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by Croa 6 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Depends on what your perception of normal is. If you're driven to forced deviant acts, than that's not normal. If you play games that are a bit over the edge, but doen't incapacitate your or others, that's somewhat normal.
2007-03-26 10:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whips and chains turn you on too? Its alright babe, you just have a rape fantasy. I also bet you would be into the bondage thing if given the oppurtunity.
As for your question, no one can really answer that. Don't label yourself based on society's views on what's gross or not. Enjoy yourself, but keep it safe. Peace.
2007-03-26 00:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you are into S and M, or you like to fantasize about it because it works for you as long as you can control what happens to you. Its S and M. Now whether you are the submissive or the Mistress is the question or you are interchangable, I forgot what THEY are called, the ones who can be dominant and submissive to.
2007-03-26 10:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋