There's a mean girl at my school, she's so mean and a gossip. What can I do?

Answer 1

Tell everyone she's poor.

Answer 2

There is always going to be someone like her that you will have to deal with at different times in your life. It's frustrating, I know. And it can be VERY hurtful. I bet she makes you angry and you're dying to get revenge. At least that's how I use to feel/still do at times. :) But what you have to remember is that the best revenge is to live well and be happy. If she thinks her gossip is getting to you then she'll continue to do it. Let her say what she has to say. Let people who are stupid enough to believe her... believe her. If someone approaches you or makes fun of you for something they heard from her, say... (with a smile on your face)... You know it amazes me the stories people come up with... let me guess... you heard that from "what ever her name is". Then walk away. If that person tries to argue with you then just smile at them and walk away. When you smile at a person who is trying to hurt or humiliate you .. you'd be surprised how much they get upset. The worst thing you could do in your situation is get mad or yell or continue the hatred by being a gossip yourself. Too many people resort to that to make themselves feel better. Doing it that way usually doesn't make anyone feel better. You're better off smiling and letting it go. Mean people are usually hurting themselves. I'll pray for both of you! Have a better day tomorrow!

Answer 3

Well, be the "adult" in this situation and whatever she says, take it very calmly and don't let it get to you. If she gets in your face, stay calm and look at her up and down, take a breath, like, *sigh*, and then look at her like she's pathetic, and make it look like she's not getting to you what so ever. It'll bug her so damn bad that she'll start to feel like an idiot. But if it gets bad enough, and your sick of being the "adult" in the situation, just walk up behind her one day, and grab her by the shoulder, spin her around really fast, and give her a big punch square in the face, and make her nose bleed or break. Haha, but keep the Adult act up, that way it doesn't look as if she's getting to you. If you stay adult-like, and just look down at her, and take the upper hand, she'll feel pathetic and childish, and people will find you the more mature one and will look up to you. They'll most likely follow what you're doing, and she'll get more people that won't take her ****. It'll make everyone hate her.

Answer 4

According to conventional wisdom, playing violent video games will prepare you to deal with mean people in school.
Get real, do what everyone does. You can either ignore it (try it for a month) or you can undertake a visious gosip smear of her most cherished value. Study her carefully then attack. You might enlist others who have fallen prey to her gossip.
Good luck and don't take any crap.

Answer 5

Ignore her. But if her gossip is hurting you than you inform your teacher or administrator, and be sure to have people who can testify on her behavior and actions.

Answer 6

i would just look at her and smile kindness kills thats what my mom has always taught me. She is also showing you that she is jealous of you. Let her do what she wants she will realize that the joke is on her later on in life. just remember karma will hit her hard it may not be now but it will happen believe me i know i was just like you.

Answer 7

girls can be the meanest of students, the only thing you can do is try and befriend her, and in time get her to see that the way she is has hurt people, but be careful, you can end up picking up her bad habits too,, just treat her nicely

Answer 8

does she gossip about you? it is her problem not yours, don't be a busy body!!

Answer 9

Start a rumor about how you hear she's gonna have an abortion...again.(sigh)

Answer 10

OK heres the plan, When she gets off the bus tomarrow, you and me will jump her! I got yo back G!!!!!! ;)

Answer 11

use some wit against her ..shes probably just jealous of u for some reason.