We're gay and thats tough! He was in a 40yrs LTR with someone... now they still live together(BUT, his x bf is now with someone, who lived together..complicated? YES!) is it because he tired for just being with one guy? He is 60 by the way and I am 25. I really can't forget about him, no matter how hard I try... And now he live in KL. He got lots of attention from young guys. I think he likes it and that is one of the reasons... Please guys! I am so in love with this guy! What should i do?
2007-03-25 16:04:04 · 4 answers · asked by I, Idiot 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The fact that he still lives with his ex and is with somebody else and is going around playing with others,I would stop thinking about him and go on with your life.I know it will be difficult but you have a long life ahead of you.There will be pain.If you have sincere friends(not beer buddies) spend more time with them while you are grieving to get the emotional support you need.It's not going to be easy but in the long run you need to separate from him.In time the pain will go away.Be patient with yourself give yourself a chance.You are a young man and time is on your side.I am sure in the years ahead you will find some one.
2007-03-25 17:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by silverback7m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that you should not have to play his games. He is holding you to a double standard telling you he can't be with you because he;s not ready, but he is spending his time with other people. Best thing you can do is find someone else to help you get your mind off of him. You do not deserve to be treated like that.
2007-03-25 23:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over him Im sure you can do so much better. Youll find someone that will love and appreciate you. You dont need him and no offence but i think he's a bit old for ya.
Good Luck!
xoxo
2007-03-26 00:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. That is what you should do. You've stated that he's seeing another guy. THAT should tell you exactly where you fit in his life.
You may well be in love with him, but he is NOT in love with you. You deserve better.
2007-03-25 23:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋