I am 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and im pretty shure im pregnant but still dont know yet but i need help trying to calm my boyfriend down we are stressed out about this and im just trying to stay calm and relax but he is just so worried and cant calm down and i cant take it when he is like that cuz then i just start to stressed out too... what do i do?
2007-03-25 15:45:01 · 8 answers · asked by nikkie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First off, find out if you really are pregnant. If you're not, everything will be fine. If you are, then both of you are going to have put your heads up and undterstand that there's nothing you can but be optimistic about the whole situation. It's normal for people (especailly younger people) to be completey stressed and act different but everything will be okay. Just buy some books and you two need to read them together and understand everything that's going on with your body. He needs to know it's not the end of the world and much worst could happen. Ya'll are very lucky to have conceived a baby, many people can't. So try to tell him how luck he is and that he should proud. If you need more email me at bucscc32@yahoo.com. I'll help you out as much as possible and whenever you need it. =)
2007-03-25 15:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Autumn she didnt ask if you think she is pregnant, she asked what she can do to calm her boyfriend down!
Hm... are you guys going to keep the baby? If you are, then make it fun. Search online for websites that show the stages of the baby in the mommies tummy. Or go and look for baby clothes, furniture, toys together. Eventually he'll see the great things about babies. Now if you guys dont want the baby or dont know yet, talk about options, tell him everything will be okay. It is not the end of the world, just a different step into your guys' future. Tell him you two are in this together and will figure it out. Tell him it hurts you to see him like that and thats not good for you right now. Just take it slow with him, he'll come around and realize he needs to help with this situation and not stress. goodluck
2007-03-25 15:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)Take a pregnancy test
2)Go to a doctor and get a test done
3)Wait about 7-8 more months and see if anything "pops" out.
Honestly, if you came on here and asked then you pretty much know the answer is that you could be, do you honestly think any of us have a crystal ball to look into and tell you for sure one way of the other? Do you realize this question in asked about 100 times (and that is not an exageration) a day on here? I'm sorry but no one can tell you over the internet whether you are pregnant or not. Also, should you choose the first option please note that a "faint" positive is and will pretty much still always be a positive. (Just to save you from asking that question later).
2007-03-25 15:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're form of asking two questions right here. There's surely not anything flawed with now not having bridesmaids, so long as humans are making it approximately the marriage ceremony and now not the friendship. Some humans desire to hold matters sensible, they do not desire the drawback, and even they are not able to make a decision the best way to prepare it. So they only have none. But if you are doing it as a punishment, or a passive competitive approach to seize any one's concentration, that is now not egocentric, however I'd name it immature. It appears like your BFF friendship demands a major, grownup dialog, however that is a separate dilemma out of your marriage ceremony.
2016-09-05 16:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens when you dont listen to your parent's. Listen to parent's advise pays off doesn't? Your in a tough situation and yes you should worry you know what you were getting your self into and so did your boyfriend. You should worry because it comes along with it. Your just a child And your parent's have to talk to his parent's for the results it does not sound good.Now if your not pregnant your parent's have to put you on some b-control because your to young to come out pregnant. Pray your not and i hope you learn from this.
2007-03-25 15:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by amores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be calm and you need to take a test to be 100% sure. you can go to planned parenthood and they will do one for free. there is nothing you can do at this time so just calm yourself down and try to do things to take it off your mind until you find out for sure once you find out for sure you can make a decision on what to do. whatever you choose to do is your decision but remember to try and make the decision together because even if you do not stay together you both will have to live with the decision for the rest of youur life
2007-03-25 15:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Erin S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to be so young and facing something like that. i know what when we first thought my wife was prego i was freaking out as well. its alot for a guy to deal with. it was difficult for me and my wife and i were married for a year before it happened. however there really is no way to calm him the best thing is to find out for sure if you are. you can take a Home pregno test as early as 5 days before you next period... or if you are already late you can take one now. go to the store. and get one and go from there. Best of luck
2007-03-25 15:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by cherryredstang55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you should take a pregnancy test to see if you really have a reason to be stressing! if you are pregnant, try not to freak out. yes you are both young, but I know from experience that everything will work out ok. it will be hard to tell your parents, but they love you and they will not be angry (well not for long anyway). there is help out there. there are lots of resources for young mothers, you just have to find them. oh...and if you are not pregnant, start using some type of protection! good luck to you and your boyfriend.
2007-03-25 15:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by Chelsi85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋