my best friend doesnt want anything to do with me.If she sees me she says as little as possible,when I call her she says shes got to go because shes in the store buying groceries or shes on the other line or etc....She says nothings wrong,that I didnt do anything and we are still friends but she is always putting me off.We where best friends for years and now I dont know who she is.She acts as if she doesnt care if I fell off a bridge.She is hard hearted now.Her actions speak for her but she wont tell me the truth ,she only makes me feel so bad.How and why did she get so heartless to me.?We are in our thirties and we have been friends since grade school.
2007-03-25 15:40:16 · 9 answers · asked by dlbonhomme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe she's just depressed.
2007-03-25 15:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy Sn. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Went through the same thing years ago. I was maid of honor at her wedding--we were best friends for years and went through a lot together. She just stopped answering my calls--Have not talked to her in 12 years. I have no idea why this happened I do miss her but will prob never get an answer. Just move on and make new friends--u did nothing wrong-people are who they are.
2007-03-25 23:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to answer that question, I'm going through the same thing. I was seeing a lady for over 3 months, then she broke it off, said she hoped we could still be friends, but now doesn't really talk to me, like there was never anything there, it messed me up for a while, and i still care about her. it will get better, just remember that it was her choice, not yours
2007-03-25 23:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Doug T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked, she replied. her actions or inaction speaks louder than words. obviously somethings wrong it could be you or it could be something going on with her that has nothing to do with you. If she doesn't want to share and doesn't want to spend time with you and doesn't want to discuss the issue in order to resolve it so you can see where your friendship stands, etc. I think you will have to accept that things between the two of you (as well as she herself) have changed, it happens. Tell her you are there for her, you miss her, etc. then give her space and live your life, she may or may not come around all you can do is put it out there...the ball is in her court, so to speak. good luck!
2007-03-25 23:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is busy and has found other things that intrest her more, or something has happened between the 2 of you.Only one of you or both of you know what it is.Maybe her personality has changed and you 2 just dont click anymore.Tell her how she is making you feel and and if she is mean about it, dump her and find a new friend.
2007-03-25 22:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why she became so heartless, only she knows that.
Did something happen to her? Have you done anything at all to hurt her? Had she been giving signs that she was tired of being around you that you weren't picking up on?
2007-03-25 22:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears she is not interested in the way you would like her to be and one only need tell her get real or I'm moving on. If she is for real things will change in your favor if not then you got your answer.
2007-03-25 22:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have hurt her unknowingly.It hurts too much even to talk to you.Think about your actions again you will find the answer to her behavior.
2007-03-25 22:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by kalabalu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have done something wrong.....talk to her about it, ask her why is she acting this way.
2007-03-25 22:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋