confidence while wearing glasses?

Question

i need some help... i never wear my glasses out in public because i don't feel good about myself in them. i just got an eye infection so i can't wear my contacts and i'll have to wear my glasses to school this week. what should i do? i really need help! i'm very shy and i hate being the center of attention. what do you do when you have to wear your glasses and haven't worn them for a long time. i just feel like all of the attention is on me when i'm wearing my glasses and i hate it. i feel so clostrophobic while i'm wearing them. it isn't an option not to wear them because my eyes have gotten so much worse. i definately need to wear them for school. i need help! thank you so much

Answer 1

wear the glasses and see if people notice.. other people may like them and compliment you, and though you dont like to be the center of attention, its always nice to recieve a compliment.. kids these days dont really care if you wear glasses or not..i wear glasses and nobody really cares that i do.. my friends actually like them.. but if they dont like them, all that matters is that you need to see, its a priority.. so wear them like theyre hot and keep being who you are..

Answer 2

I had the same problem but now I have contacts!! So ya I know how you feel. But don't worry lots of people have glasses too. Get some nice glasses or experiment with hairstyles to see what looks good with glasses? And just be confident!!

Answer 3

I like glasses. I wish I could have a wardrobe of glasses to suit my mood at any given time! They can flatter your face and give you character! Look around, a lot of people have glasses. You're projecting your own concerns and assuming others will look down on you. You might get some comments if you don't usually wear them - people aren't used to seeing them on you, but most won't be bad comments so don't read into them and hold your head up high regardless.

Answer 4

Honey, be proud in your glasses!

Fix your hair, do your make up, wear some really nice clothes...all of these "regulars" will give you the confidence enough to wear your glasses

I totally know where youre coming from! I wear both contacts and glasses and it can be a little embarrassing when you switch from contacts to glasses...
I work at a really nice boutique and i wore my glasses once because I was running late...I did my hair in one of those poofs and I did my normal make up and i wore my 4 inch platforms with a black skirt, powder blue cami and blazer and NOBODY SAID A THING...my boyfriend though i looked like a sexy librarian [even if im not a librarian]

So make yourself look like a sexy librarian! be confident and good luck!

Answer 5

omg u shouldnt feel self conscience in them!!! why do u htink they make fashion glasses? i know my sister has a pair of non prescription glasses that r just for looks! i personally think that glasses make u look more intelligent (not in the nerdy way either....as long as there isnt tape holding them together!) and they definitely make u look more sophisicated! and if u definitely cannot stand them just tell urself that it is only until the eye infection is gone then u can go right back to contacts! a week isnt forever after all!

Answer 6

I didn't need glasses until my senior year of high school. It was literally three days before someone even noticed I was wearing them.

"Hey. Are those new glasses?"
"Yeah. I can't believe I need glasses. Aren't they gross?"
"You mean you didn't always have glasses?"

Believe it or not people honestly don't pay much attention to eyewear. And it's not like you're stuck wearing them forever.

Answer 7

very1 always feels that they look bad but the turht is u DONT somepeople veen look better in glasses and im sure every1 ill like em.. and rember now adays TONS of peope wear glasses sometimes theyre 4 readign soemtimes they 4 nearsighted and soemimes tney just look cool! im sure when u get to school ull have a great reaction from every1! and dont worry about it!

Answer 8

quite honestly, most people probably won't notice. trust me, not everyone is as focused on you as you think they are.

have some confidence in yourself, there's absolutely nothing wrong with wearing glasses, tons of people do - just because you wear them doesn't mean everyone is going to stare at you like a freak or something.

Answer 9

As long as they're secured to your head then I don't see the problem. Personally I can't stand wearing mine when swimming but then I can't swim too well either so it isn't an issue for me :)

Answer 10

Chicks with glasses are super cute, I love the studious, nerdy look. alot of guys share that affection. don't worry, millions of girls wear glasses, just be confident.