Ok so i'm 14 no guys have EVER had crushes on me i feel unloved, i know that my family loves me but thats not the same thing as a boy my age. I have even made up my own imaginary boyfriend, gave him an email address and mailed myself back and forth. I feel depressed and lonely. But i don't want some desperate guy that only likes me for my body (wink, wink nod nod) i want a real guy who likes me for me. I'm i in a serious depression or just drama queen? what can i do to either get guys to like me or to get me to forget them?
2007-03-25 14:57:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ahh girl, I'm sorry youre feeling so down. youre still so young though, All I gotta say is that we all go through that stage in life , wishing that we had someone to love us or like us other then family, , dont worry your day will come ,be patient!!!! and be happy with your self even though its hard jjust think positive and everything will be alright and you'll find someone, guys like girls with good personalitys so if they know your a happy person , im sure that will make it better for them to wanna get to know you,
2007-03-25 15:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're so depressed about not having a boyfriend. You're putting unneccessary pain and pressure on yourself. Precious, creating a bf is not helping your depression and loneliness. That will only make is worse because it's not real. At age 14, you and the guys your age have far more growing, learning, and maturing to do before you're ready for a bf/gf relationship and that takes years. While having a bf might sound romatic, at your age it'll only lead to a lot of heartache and misery that you're too young too handle and not ready for, such as, unwanted pregnancy, VD, AIDS/HIV, jealousy, hurt feelings, and a broken heart. You're only a teenager once so, let this time be for you. Do posiive things with your life that will help you grow, learn and mature such as preparing for your post-high school education, getting a hobby that you can use your imagination to develope, learning to play an instrument, joining a youth group at your school or a local church and you're not to young to try volunteering to name a few. You don't want just any guy, you want that special guy, and when that time comes, it will happen on it's own, and you will not have to do a thing. So, hold your head up, begin smiling, start being friendly to those around you, appreciate and accept the love of God and your family and also learn to return love. As the years pass and you develope that special guy will come along.
2007-03-26 00:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, dont hurry to have a b/f....it will all come to fruitiopn in good time. Make 'real' friends, enjoy sport and the outdoors...move on!
2007-03-25 22:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by pandora_293 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you'll get what you need. Rolling Stones
2007-03-25 22:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by spicy23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋