My bff went to New York (i live in chicago) and we planned this big hang out thing, for like 1 maybe 2 weeks! she went to hang out with a girl that she told me she dosent like, and some other people. They arn't her bffs, but we are bffs.... why would she blow me off? She told me she forgot, but is it normal to forget about a bff? I dont know if she is faking it now! What do you think?
2007-03-25 14:57:16 · 14 answers · asked by brittany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Confront her about it. Tell her what is on your mind. Tell your friend how you feel. If she gives you severe attitude then I wouldn't hang with her anymore. There will be people that will like you for you. WHO needs that kind of drama. Life is too short...
2007-03-25 15:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She blew you off cause she's a two faced liar. If she was supposed to hang out with you, and then blows you off to hang out with some girl that she "doesn't like" then chances are she is friends with this girl and is talking smack behind your back.
I would talk to your so called "BFF" and tell her that you know she couldn't have forgotten that you two were making plans. If she claims she forgot, and gets furstrated or angry at you for bringing it up, clearly she didn't forget, and she's just riding the fence with your friendship.
If she is truly your BFF then she would understand that she hurt you feelings and would offer an apology for blowing you off.
Me on the other hand, would say screw it to her, because anyone who blows me off to hang out with someone they don't like really isnt what I would consider a friend in the first place.
2007-03-25 15:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by The only good blu is a dead blu! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she said she didn't like the person she is with now then how do you know she is your bff? If you have one true friend in life then you are really lucky. Call her and ask her why she is with them and not you that is the easy thing to do or you can just pay her back and forget the next plans you too have blow her off like she did you
2007-03-25 15:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just ask her. U can't go wrong by talking out ur concerns. If she won't talk to u about it, then it's time to do some serious thinking about this relationship. Bffs r supposed to be there for each other & it sounds like she doesn't want to. I hope things turn out well, for u.
2007-03-25 15:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by louise b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were really BFF you would get over it and realize that she had to have a good reason to blow you off like that. If you dont a gree with me talk it over with her. I've been having problems with my BFF but dont let those problems come between you. Just remember this.
Best friends are like butt cheecks
A whole bunch of Sh*t come between them
But they always stick together
Wrork it out with her, DONT FREAK.
2007-03-25 15:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats really mean and veryyy careless ... u should let her know how u feel ... but to be honest dont do anything to her because that will make u a bad friend just like her and u dont want to stoop to that level ... good luck with everything !
2007-03-25 15:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then he is not worthy. You will find Love Again, just listen to Tesla's Love Song!!! Totally Random **** Peace Out
2007-03-25 15:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by spicy23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u had sex and not using a condom yeah u can take the plan b pill.. yet when u did no longer have sex there is not any longer a level. u the position only making out and the condom blew off. or became he interior of u and the the condom blew off? i do not comprehend what ur asserting
2016-12-02 19:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she blew you off. Dont fret tho.. better fish in the sesa. dont believe me ask Charlie.?
2007-03-25 15:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by shakannaglory 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that she is a total retard for forgetting. a real friend wouldn't forget about a get together like that.
2007-03-25 15:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋