im not shure to have phone sex u loose ure virginity like that or not well i dont know im really confused that person is always working in the studio he is always saying are u going to give it up and i pretend to have that but i dont do the things they tell me to do but i dont know if i like him or is how he is i dont know im confused?
2007-03-25 14:53:44 · 23 answers · asked by jovanna R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If this person only talks about this phone sex thing, or sex period. Then he doesn't like you, he just wants to have sex with you. One way to find out, try talking about something else. If it always goes back to a sex thing than you know that's all he cares about. To answer you. No, it's not loosing your virginity.
2007-03-25 15:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Hawk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, to anyone else on here answering this young ladies question(s.) She is thirteen years old, and is already lying to a nineteen year old boy about her age. Asking her to contact you about having phone sex in wrong and illegal and immoral.
Once again, young lady if you have to be on the computer asking these types of questions, you are not old enough to be participating in phone sex or any other type of sex.
Get off of the computer with this crap and go ask you Mom these questions.
If you were my daughter you would never be allowed on the computer again, until you were an adult, and a real adult not a lying pretending to be older teen.
You are just begging for trouble.
I will pray for you and your Mom and Dad and Grandma, you are going to need as much help as you can get.
2007-03-25 15:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you allow a young man to convince you to have phone sex, you are showing him and yourself that you have little self esteem and by this time, you should have a strong conviction on what is good and right in your life - and for you. I would not. You need to tell him and you need to be firm about it - read some books on the subject - talk to your parents, a school counselor - you need to have a strong theory on what you will do in and outside of your body. You should not have to pretend anything. Let your yes, be yes, and your no, be no. But you must inform yourself , arm yourself with information. Just say no! And I certainly would not want this young man as a 'boyfriend'. Leave him to the other girls who walk to talk trash.
2007-03-25 14:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think you need to learn more about sex before you participate in any sexual activities. you will NOT lose your virginity by having phone sex. the only way you can lose your virginity is when the penis penetrates the vagina.
I highly advise you NOT to do anything with this guy. He seems like a pedophile to me. You should tell your parents the stuff he's saying, for your protection mainly. and just tell him that you dont want to participate in that stuff and you'd appreciate it if he didn't ask you to or anything.
you really shouldn't be doing anything sexual. you're way too young and naive.
2007-03-25 15:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kiri 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't lose your virginity through phone sex. However it sounds like you don't want to do this and are being pressured. Tell someone you trust about this and stay far away from the guy or guys trying to force you to do this.
2007-03-25 14:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hun you can't lose your viginity by having phone sex. Its like masturbating. But if you not ready for it or not into it than let him know it. It's better not to hide anything. And he if gets mad because you don't want to do it than you shouldn't be with him anyways because it means he doesn't respect you or how you feel about things.
2007-03-25 14:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by Meiko420 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This does not make much sense. Phone sex is just dirty talk - it is not sex. It doesn't really work for a lot of people.
2007-03-25 14:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Phone sex is sick tell that f** to take a hike and go get a life
2007-03-25 18:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone sex is when you talk really dirty to each other on the phone. With phone sex you can't loose your virginity. But please don't have phone sex, rumours could start.
2007-03-25 15:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just say no. You dont want to be known as a phone whore.
Thats gross. Respect yourself. You would still be a virgin , with a slutty rep. You know he will tell everyone at school about it, you will get alot more calls.......
2007-03-25 14:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by tammer 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋