He thinks she is gross because he knows and admires her husband but I would like her to stop. What can I say to her to get her to stop her outrageous flirting before I have to go to her husband or police.
2007-03-25 14:49:27 · 22 answers · asked by Raven 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her if it happens again you will go directly to her husband and if that doesn't cure the problem you will go to the police.
If she is flirting with your teen,she is probably doing or done to others.
I would have confronted her the first time she did it in front of husband,god and anyone else who was around.
2007-03-25 14:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you would like to speak with her privately. Tell her this: "Look I just want you to know that I am aware what you are doing flirting with my son, and I don't think it is appropriate and I want it to stop." Say: "You are a married woman and my son is an impressionable teenager and he doesn't appreciate your flirting with him because it makes him uncomfortable." "He likes and admires your husband, but that doesn't give you the right to do what you are doing."Then see what she has to say. She probably will deny it, but if she does, tell her she was warned and the next time you will call the police and have her arrested for sexual harrassment of a minor. Then walk away. Hopefully this will scare her enough that she will stop.
Hope this helps your son. Tell you son, to try to totally avoid this woman in every way he can.
2007-03-25 15:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say just that. Stop now before I tell your husband or press charges on you. With all the child molesting going on these days the police will not tolerate this behavior and will do something to her. Just let her know what your plans are and she just might stop what she is doing to your son.
2007-03-25 14:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flat out tell her that it bothers you and your son. It's disgusting! Tell that you don't appreciate the fact that she is hitting on your son, that is disrespectful to your son, her husband, and you. Be honest with her that it makes you and him uncomfortable, and if she doesn't stop the cops will be at her house. That's all, just be honest, and stand your ground! This is disgusting and you shouldn't have to put up with this crap from a woman your age.
2007-03-25 14:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at his point if all she is doing is flirting then don't sweat the small stuff- however a quiet chat with her to inform her your intentions is well in line. Before you consider the police perhaps her HUSBAND should be notified
2007-03-25 14:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell her if she does not stop you will tell her husband, and have a restraining order placed on her. She has got some problems but you have to protect your son. I wish you well
2007-03-25 14:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by mjohnson1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would politely tell her that your son sees her as a motherly figure as she is probably old enough to be his mother
Or next time she flirts with him, tell her straight off that she is out of line and that your son is not interested and that you and your husband don't appreciate it.
2007-03-25 14:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by letting her know that you're aware of what she's doing...and that it is illegal (depending upon the age of your son) and that you will be more than happy to contact your local police department if the advances do not cease.
2007-03-25 14:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her to back off. Warn her that if you hear about it or see it again that you will go to her husband and the police. If she does it again, do both.
2007-03-25 14:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck.. Tell her what you told us about "going to husband or police" if she doesn't stop at once, make good on the threat!!
2007-03-25 14:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋