I'm 17 and I guess i'm goin to do what most guys my age do (party, join frats etc) but I really can't wait to get married. I do intend on living the college experience but I'd rather find my sweetheart and cuddle w/ her until the stars burn out. I guess im not goin to get married b/c im so young but why do i really want to?Most of my friends want to join a fraternity, drink beligerantly, and have random sex... Obviously being a young guy comes with wanting girls...alot (lol)...but I really want to do it with someone I really love. Its not meaningful, enjoyable, or intimate if it happens after a frat party with some drunk chick.
2007-03-25 14:48:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just to make clear...It's not like im really ugly with no friends and have no life lol. I've had my fair share of opportunities with girls. I have been heavy on the party scene. I just think my wife-to-be would appreciate it if I didn't have sex with a lot of girls before her because I know I would want my future wife to limit her pre-marital experience.
2007-03-25 14:48:31 · update #1
me, just incase you hought i was a geek or something lol...http://i10.tinypic.com/33op1g6.jpg
2007-03-25 14:51:20 · update #2
no im not lonely LOL...not am i friend i'll end up alone. read the dang question i do party and hang out friends alot...geez
2007-03-25 14:52:42 · update #3
i mean to say nor** am i afraid..
2007-03-25 14:53:20 · update #4
Because you are a "romantic." Because you believe in love and monogamy and are mentally and emotionally on a higher plane than most guys your age. I find the words in the question that you have asked to be very beautiful...full of unaffected innocence that is very rare to find in most guys your age. See, all men who get married eventually feel the way you do. They want to settle down with that one special woman. This usually occurs after college...after they have "sowed their oats" so to speak. You have just reached that level a little quicker, but if I can offer you a piece of advice, enjoy your youth and being single. When you go off to college, date different girls until you find your special one and then you can put those lovely idealistic beliefs of yours into play and make some girl out there a very lucky lady!
2007-03-25 15:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say that you need to refrain from sex until you are married. You can enjoy college and have a lot of fun without sex for now. If a lot of boys thought that way there would be a lot less children being born without live in father and mother.
2007-03-25 14:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by kool aid 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're sounding desperate. Try getting to know yourself and enjoy yourself. Realize that your self-worth doesn't depend on another human being. Then you will not feel the need to commit the rest of your life to another just yet. There's so much more for you to experience.
2007-03-25 14:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by T Time 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It may not be that you want to get married per say, but you want to find the one you're supposed to be with. I think that's very noble of you to control yourself and not sleep with anything that's willing. You're wife will greatly appreciate it!!!
2007-03-25 14:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by krisx42 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called being in love, that is why you just like being around her. When one is in love the real love not the one everyone seems to throw around. You like being with the person. Just talking to them makes you happy. I wish you and your bride to be the best. May she love you as much as you her.
2007-03-25 14:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this sounds a little scarey to me!
you need not to get so obsessed with this right
now, if you do you will
wind up marrieing the wrong girl!
please , take it slow and carefully.
you will fall into a trap if you don't.!#*
2007-03-25 14:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by retta 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will get over it in time. Just remember that the grass is not always greener. Most of the time it is dead and brown. Enjoy the freedom that you have.
2007-03-25 14:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by ally_oop_64 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guess it's because you're looking for security, commitment and the idea of always having someone you trust by your side.
:)
2007-03-25 14:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Aimers 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude you've asked this question sooo many times, yeah you want different things than your friends, that doesn't make you special. Get over it!
2007-03-25 14:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
doesnt matter how many friends you have or parties there are around you, life sucks without that one special person.
2007-03-25 14:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by boutgivup 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋