I know that you will answer my question truthfully, well I have been with my husband for 14 years , and I noticed that he always asks me if I have been cheating and with whom?? now I go to the gym and work , but when Im off work I just want to be home with our children, and be a good wife, mother ,person
why is he such a freaken "shrek" grrrrrrrrrrrrr.
2007-03-25 14:46:34 · 27 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thank you for answereing my question,,
and yes I just lost 20lbs.
2007-03-25 14:54:13 · update #1
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2007-03-25 14:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Hmmm....it COULD be a guilty conscience . . but if you are CERTAIN that he isn't cheating, then scratch that theory.
Perhaps he has recently realised how good he has it with you and his family life and is so afraid of losing it that he's gotten to the paranoid stage.
It sounds strange, but it's quite common - relationships are full of tests - being married 14 yrs does not exempt you from the game, it just presents a new set of tests!
Hang in there, girl. Carry on being a good wife.
2007-03-25 14:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Life's a beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on the weight loss! Your husband just needs reassurance from you that you do not want to cheat on him. The next time he says something like that, you just tell him that you've been looking, but you can't find anyone as good as him. Make sure he knows that no matter what you do or how you look that your interests are him...have some really wonderful love making and prove it to him.
2007-03-30 08:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has anything changed about your appearance? He's a bit insecure, has he always asked this or just lately? I would just be honest with him and ask him why he is assuming that you're in another man's arms. If this is having a huge strain on your marriage I'd be asking these questions very soon to get some answers. Good luck.
2007-03-25 14:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he is insecure about his self and your relationship.< or something else is rambling around in his mind. Get a handle on it now, sit down and discuss why he thinks your cheating. It may be in your best interest to go ahead and open the can of worms and deal with it now.
2007-03-31 04:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by mssgtmidnight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if you were cheating, you would have left him a long time ago instead of putting up with his accusations for 14 years. I mean, if he doesn't know by now, he will never know.
2007-03-30 04:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by God Bless America 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fox will dig his own hole so let him. What I am saying is that he is doing something you know nothing about and is trying to shift the blame on to you. Do not allow this to happen. He will do what he can to degrade you and try to even make yourself believe that you are in the wrong and you must stay strong and never let him take your pride and self respect away from you let alone your dignity. Let him do as he does and think as he thinks and sit back and watch him dig his hole and you soon will see that he is the liar that he is saying you are.
2007-03-25 14:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
AWWWW---take it easy on your hubby---no wonder he thinks you're cheating....he's feeling insecure and feeling as if you've/you'll ---found/find another man now that you've lost 20 pounds. reassure him. let him know that he's the only one for you. Spend more time with him. Go out more and enjoy yourselves. Take him to the gym with you and work out as a couple.
2007-03-25 15:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of trust or maybe he is just goofing around. It all depends on the context of the entire conversation. Any individual can find out if the other is cheating. It is the easiest thing to find out if you really, really want to find out.
2007-03-31 11:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be, I guess, having better looks if such an atmosphere prevails at your home. Try to pretend looking worse sometimes. This will work.
2007-03-30 10:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by nanhowala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to the gym which means you are probably buff. Maybe he figures you are too hot for him, so there must be somebody else.Sounds like he might have a self esteem problem.
2007-03-25 14:51:38 · answer #11 · answered by Dogness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋